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		<title>By: PG</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272455</link>
		<dc:creator>PG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 00:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Martin,

Unlike sex, marriage is a social construct, so I don&#039;t see how one can be born monogamist, polygamist or misogamist.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Martin,</p>

	<p>Unlike sex, marriage is a social construct, so I don&#8217;t see how one can be born monogamist, polygamist or misogamist.</p>
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		<title>By: Martin Bento</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272362</link>
		<dc:creator>Martin Bento</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 03:43:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m still interested in hearing how JM knows no one is born a polygamist.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I&#8217;m still interested in hearing how JM knows no one is born a polygamist.</p>
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		<title>By: John Holbo</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272351</link>
		<dc:creator>John Holbo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 00:51:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just so you all know: I&#039;ve stopped turning Don C&#039;s comments on in the moderation queue. Mostly because he had started to spill over into our guest&#039;s &quot;Inequality&quot; post.

Don C, I hereby satisfy your expressed desire for everyone to know that you, indeed, kept leaving comments even though I stopped turning them on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Just so you all know: I&#8217;ve stopped turning Don C&#8217;s comments on in the moderation queue. Mostly because he had started to spill over into our guest&#8217;s &#8220;Inequality&#8221; post.</p>

	<p>Don C, I hereby satisfy your expressed desire for everyone to know that you, indeed, kept leaving comments even though I stopped turning them on.</p>
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		<title>By: Cygna</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272348</link>
		<dc:creator>Cygna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 23:39:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>...I see, Don. So, &quot;because it would make no one&#039;s life worse and many people&#039;s lives better&quot; is, for you, an insufficient argument for change. I shall bear this in mind. I shall also bear in mind that the inherent moral rightness of extending equality to more citizens, altruism, and wanting people they care about to be happy have never been arguments that have changed people&#039;s minds on issues, ever. That said, the arguments for gay marriage:

-form a more perfect union (I for one consider it my duty as a citizen to improve the state of the state insofar as I am able)
-establish justice (see also: decision in Iowa, for a detailed explanation of why restricting marriage to opposite-sex couples is unjust)
-ensure domestic tranquility (I don&#039;t like having to keep having this argument any more than you do; less, probably)
-provide for the common defense (...okay, I&#039;m just reaching here)
-promote the general welfare (Math time! Effect on opposite-sex couples: 0. Effect on same-sex couples: +. Net result: +!)
-secure the blessings of liberty for ourselves and our posterity (because it&#039;s not just self-interest. For those of us who are capable of empathy, it&#039;s the interest of generations who shouldn&#039;t have to be unhappy just because we couldn&#039;t get our shit together and give them equal rights.)

Gee, that sounds awfully familiar...Nah, I must be thinking of something else. I mean, what kind of nation would consider goals like &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; important?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8230;I see, Don. So, &#8220;because it would make no one&#8217;s life worse and many people&#8217;s lives better&#8221; is, for you, an insufficient argument for change. I shall bear this in mind. I shall also bear in mind that the inherent moral rightness of extending equality to more citizens, altruism, and wanting people they care about to be happy have never been arguments that have changed people&#8217;s minds on issues, ever. That said, the arguments for gay marriage:</p>

	<p>-form a more perfect union (I for one consider it my duty as a citizen to improve the state of the state insofar as I am able)<br />
<del>establish justice (see also: decision in Iowa, for a detailed explanation of why restricting marriage to opposite</del>sex couples is unjust)<br />
-ensure domestic tranquility (I don&#8217;t like having to keep having this argument any more than you do; less, probably)<br />
-provide for the common defense (&#8230;okay, I&#8217;m just reaching here)<br />
<del>promote the general welfare (Math time! Effect on opposite</del>sex couples: 0. Effect on same-sex couples: +. Net result: +!)<br />
<del>secure the blessings of liberty for ourselves and our posterity (because it&#8217;s not just self</del>interest. For those of us who are capable of empathy, it&#8217;s the interest of generations who shouldn&#8217;t have to be unhappy just because we couldn&#8217;t get our shit together and give them equal rights.)</p>

	<p>Gee, that sounds awfully familiar&#8230;Nah, I must be thinking of something else. I mean, what kind of nation would consider goals like <i>that</i> important?</p>
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		<title>By: PG</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272327</link>
		<dc:creator>PG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 20:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don C.

What was the problem with my argument @ 212 for recognizing marriages in a gender-neutral manner? (i.e. without regard for the sex of the spouses, just as we recognizes marriages in a race-neutral manner without regard for the race of the spouses, and not putting a different label on same-sex marriages just as we don&#039;t put a different label on interracial marriages)

If you don&#039;t bother to refute someone who makes the argument you requested -- one that focuses on the state&#039;s interest in marriage -- you look just that much more silly claiming that no one has made such an argument.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Don C.</p>

	<p>What was the problem with my argument @ 212 for recognizing marriages in a gender-neutral manner? (i.e. without regard for the sex of the spouses, just as we recognizes marriages in a race-neutral manner without regard for the race of the spouses, and not putting a different label on same-sex marriages just as we don&#8217;t put a different label on interracial marriages)</p>

	<p>If you don&#8217;t bother to refute someone who makes the argument you requested&#8212;one that focuses on the state&#8217;s interest in marriage&#8212;you look just that much more silly claiming that no one has made such an argument.</p>
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		<title>By: Perezoso</title>
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		<dc:creator>Perezoso</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Uh, the First Amendment of US Constitution, and the separation clause--which does not recognize the jurisdiction of God, or gods (I suspect you will now find some trivial religious language from a founder or prayer or something, but that does not at all  overcome the Sep-Clause).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Uh, the First Amendment of <span class="caps">US </span>Constitution, and the separation clause&#8212;which does not recognize the jurisdiction of God, or gods (I suspect you will now find some trivial religious language from a founder or prayer or something, but that does not at all  overcome the Sep-Clause).</p>
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		<title>By: Don C.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&#039;grateful to Almighty God for our freedom.&#039;

&quot;Itself unconstitutional.&quot;

What hard evidence supports that claim?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8216;grateful to Almighty God for our freedom.&#8217;</p>

	<p>&#8220;Itself unconstitutional.&#8221;</p>

	<p>What hard evidence supports that claim?</p>
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		<title>By: Perezoso</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272308</link>
		<dc:creator>Perezoso</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;grateful to Almighty God for our freedom&lt;/i&gt;

Itself unconstitutional.  

Some of us are not arguing that the state recognize all marriage, hetero, and non-hetero.  The word itself connotes religious tradition: civil unions for all a better solution.  Not exactly same as No on prop. 8--8 should not have been put to a vote (the rage should be directed not at the hordes of xtians and other monotheists who voted for it, but for the justices who allowed it to be placed on the ballot).   We&#039;re arguing that that state has no business being involved in ANY civil union, cohabitation contract, domestic partnership, etc., unless  agreed to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><i>grateful to Almighty God for our freedom</i></p>

	<p>Itself unconstitutional.</p>

	<p>Some of us are not arguing that the state recognize all marriage, hetero, and non-hetero.  The word itself connotes religious tradition: civil unions for all a better solution.  Not exactly same as No on prop. 8&#8212;8 should not have been put to a vote (the rage should be directed not at the hordes of xtians and other monotheists who voted for it, but for the justices who allowed it to be placed on the ballot).   We&#8217;re arguing that that state has no business being involved in <span class="caps">ANY</span> civil union, cohabitation contract, domestic partnership, etc., unless  agreed to.</p>
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		<title>By: Nabakov</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272304</link>
		<dc:creator>Nabakov</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No no Uncle Kvetch. we&#039;re dealing, as I said before, with a marvelous bunching bag. He twitches and squirms with every hit yet keeps popping back up so invitingly. 

I think he likes it too.

Would it help Don C if we all wore black leather masks, beat you with the thick thick  Penguin edition of &quot;Discipline and Punish&quot; and didn&#039;t play the soundtrack from &#039;Eyes Wide Shut&quot;?

I ask only out of curiosity and the small matter of a sporty wager about whether you&#039;ll quote the Bible at some point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>No no Uncle Kvetch. we&#8217;re dealing, as I said before, with a marvelous bunching bag. He twitches and squirms with every hit yet keeps popping back up so invitingly.</p>

	<p>I think he likes it too.</p>

	<p>Would it help Don C if we all wore black leather masks, beat you with the thick thick  Penguin edition of &#8220;Discipline and Punish&#8221; and didn&#8217;t play the soundtrack from &#8216;Eyes Wide Shut&#8221;?</p>

	<p>I ask only out of curiosity and the small matter of a sporty wager about whether you&#8217;ll quote the Bible at some point.</p>
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		<title>By: MarkUp</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272301</link>
		<dc:creator>MarkUp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:50:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;It’s ironic, because he’s selflessly offering his advice to everyone else, but everyone seems to think that he’s an attention-hungry troll.&quot;

Well there is irony, that&#039;s for sure.  None of us has any idea about how &quot;selfless&quot; his act of &quot;advising&quot; is  or where any real advice in his comments lay.  Yes there is difficulty selling the whole gay marriage idea to the &quot;majority&quot; - at the current rate it will take some time yet before it encompasses the nation, but it is moving.  No one has disputed that, but based on his selfless advice to date, regardless of if he is doing DA&#039;s duty, he is a trolling dude.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s ironic, because he&#8217;s selflessly offering his advice to everyone else, but everyone seems to think that he&#8217;s an attention-hungry troll.&#8221;</p>

	<p>Well there is irony, that&#8217;s for sure.  None of us has any idea about how &#8220;selfless&#8221; his act of &#8220;advising&#8221; is  or where any real advice in his comments lay.  Yes there is difficulty selling the whole gay marriage idea to the &#8220;majority&#8221; &#8211; at the current rate it will take some time yet before it encompasses the nation, but it is moving.  No one has disputed that, but based on his selfless advice to date, regardless of if he is doing DA&#8217;s duty, he is a trolling dude.</p>
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		<title>By: Don C.</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272300</link>
		<dc:creator>Don C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quoted For Ironic Emphasis:

CALIFORNIA CONSTITUTION PREAMBLE:

&quot;We, the People of the State of California, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, in order to secure and perpetuate its blessings, do establish this Constitution.&quot;

ICK! &#039;Fundies&#039;!!! ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Quoted For Ironic Emphasis:</p>

	<p><span class="caps">CALIFORNIA CONSTITUTION PREAMBLE</span>:</p>

	<p>&#8220;We, the People of the State of California, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, in order to secure and perpetuate its blessings, do establish this Constitution.&#8221;</p>

	<p><span class="caps">ICK</span>! &#8216;Fundies&#8217;<img src="!" alt="" border="0" /> ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Uncle Kvetch</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272299</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Kvetch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;But, clearly, that is not ya’ll’s goal.&lt;/i&gt;

My&#039;s goal is to get y&#039;all to bid us all a final farewell (and really really mean it this time) and slam the door on your way out at least a half-dozen more times before the end of the day.

Now, dance for me, monkey! Dance!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><i>But, clearly, that is not ya&#8217;ll&#8217;s goal.</i></p>

	<p>My&#8217;s goal is to get y&#8217;all to bid us all a final farewell (and really really mean it this time) and slam the door on your way out at least a half-dozen more times before the end of the day.</p>

	<p>Now, dance for me, monkey! Dance!</p>
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		<title>By: Barbar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reading over these comments, it&#039;s pretty clear to me that there is only one true champion of gay rights in this thread, and that&#039;s the guy who truly cares about the development of logically sound arguments that can appeal to a broad audience.  It&#039;s ironic, because he&#039;s selflessly offering his advice to everyone else, but everyone seems to think that he&#039;s an attention-hungry troll.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Reading over these comments, it&#8217;s pretty clear to me that there is only one true champion of gay rights in this thread, and that&#8217;s the guy who truly cares about the development of logically sound arguments that can appeal to a broad audience.  It&#8217;s ironic, because he&#8217;s selflessly offering his advice to everyone else, but everyone seems to think that he&#8217;s an attention-hungry troll.</p>
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		<title>By: Don C.</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/04/09/really-really-bad-arguments/comment-page-5/#comment-272295</link>
		<dc:creator>Don C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great groupthink-echo-chamber you&#039;ve got going here guys.

You really do need to apply a modicum of self-criticism and self-refutation if you hope to ever improve your argument for homosexual &quot;marriage&quot;.

But, clearly, that is not ya&#039;ll&#039;s goal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Great groupthink-echo-chamber you&#8217;ve got going here guys.</p>

	<p>You really do need to apply a modicum of self-criticism and self-refutation if you hope to ever improve your argument for homosexual &#8220;marriage&#8221;.</p>

	<p>But, clearly, that is not ya&#8217;ll&#8217;s goal.</p>
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		<title>By: PG</title>
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		<dc:creator>PG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Considering that Don C. didn&#039;t rebut my point about the state interest in encouraging marriage without regard to the sex of the spouses, I think he&#039;s not interested in the argument about same-sex marriage so much as the argument about the argument. Which is probably great for the average CT reader, but a little too meta for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Considering that Don C. didn&#8217;t rebut my point about the state interest in encouraging marriage without regard to the sex of the spouses, I think he&#8217;s not interested in the argument about same-sex marriage so much as the argument about the argument. Which is probably great for the average CT reader, but a little too meta for me.</p>
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