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		<title>By: m.</title>
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		<dc:creator>m.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:25:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>every act of sex does not equally lead to pregnancy for women, since they are not physically capable of continuous ovulation.  there is a very narrow fertility window of just a few days per menstrual cycle during which sex acts can result in pregnancy, and most women (and men) are not aware that about 75% of the time, women literally cannot become pregnant from relevant sex acts. 

honest sex education would include mentioning the realities of the full menstrual cycle in women (including that it is rather more than just a few days of bleeding and cramps) rather than just discussing proper condom use.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>every act of sex does not equally lead to pregnancy for women, since they are not physically capable of continuous ovulation.  there is a very narrow fertility window of just a few days per menstrual cycle during which sex acts can result in pregnancy, and most women (and men) are not aware that about 75% of the time, women literally cannot become pregnant from relevant sex acts.</p>

	<p>honest sex education would include mentioning the realities of the full menstrual cycle in women (including that it is rather more than just a few days of bleeding and cramps) rather than just discussing proper condom use.</p>
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		<title>By: Ohio Teach</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ohio Teach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 11:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Salient, 
I think it&#039;s not quite that neat. Abortion/pregnancy is tied to the inescapable fact of being born a woman (and &quot;distressed,&quot; as E. St. V. M. put it). In that sense, since every act of sex potentially leads to one or the other, I would say we&#039;re closer to &quot;identity trait&quot; than you think. An abortion may be something you have done to you (gahd, I hate that passive construction applied to female experiences) but it&#039;s one half of the visible effect of an outcome from something women are; something that men are not. If, as magister said above, more women like me would  come out about their elective abortions and the circs, maybe that would become clearer, but most women, like me, won&#039;t come out, except on the anonymous internet, because the stigma --&quot;murderess&quot;--is far greater than than the stigma of, say, &quot;pervert.&quot; Being a pervert just got you jail in the olden days. Being a murderess, well, we know what that still gets you.

Even the burden of contraception falls harder on women than on men. Ask any college student you know what she&#039;s paying for the pill since the last Republican Congress removed the incentive for pharmaceutical companies to supply college clinics w contraceptives at low cost--about $30+ a month whether she&#039;s having it on or not, plus one mandatory doctor&#039;s visit and pap per year $75. Then ask her if her boyfriend subsidizes any of this. Not likely. Then calculate the cost of a box of rubbers and no mandatory doctor expense. And if you skip the contraceptives, well it&#039;s back to the choice: abortion or pregnancy, both emotionally and financially costly and fraught with demeaning and terrifying moments, with the whole world your judge. It&#039;s a man&#039;s world, friends, and that&#039;s why gay rights had to leapfrog reproductive freedom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Salient,<br />
I think it&#8217;s not quite that neat. Abortion/pregnancy is tied to the inescapable fact of being born a woman (and &#8220;distressed,&#8221; as E. St. V. M. put it). In that sense, since every act of sex potentially leads to one or the other, I would say we&#8217;re closer to &#8220;identity trait&#8221; than you think. An abortion may be something you have done to you (gahd, I hate that passive construction applied to female experiences) but it&#8217;s one half of the visible effect of an outcome from something women are; something that men are not. If, as magister said above, more women like me would  come out about their elective abortions and the circs, maybe that would become clearer, but most women, like me, won&#8217;t come out, except on the anonymous internet, because the stigma&#8212;&#8221;murderess&#8221;&#8212;is far greater than than the stigma of, say, &#8220;pervert.&#8221; Being a pervert just got you jail in the olden days. Being a murderess, well, we know what that still gets you.</p>

	<p>Even the burden of contraception falls harder on women than on men. Ask any college student you know what she&#8217;s paying for the pill since the last Republican Congress removed the incentive for pharmaceutical companies to supply college clinics w contraceptives at low cost&#8212;about $30+ a month whether she&#8217;s having it on or not, plus one mandatory doctor&#8217;s visit and pap per year $75. Then ask her if her boyfriend subsidizes any of this. Not likely. Then calculate the cost of a box of rubbers and no mandatory doctor expense. And if you skip the contraceptives, well it&#8217;s back to the choice: abortion or pregnancy, both emotionally and financially costly and fraught with demeaning and terrifying moments, with the whole world your judge. It&#8217;s a man&#8217;s world, friends, and that&#8217;s why gay rights had to leapfrog reproductive freedom.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Wilkinson</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/06/18/you-start-a-conversation-you-cant-even-finish-it/comment-page-2/#comment-280045</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Wilkinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:59:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>FWIW Should perhaps have made it clear that I meant a Christianity-relative atheist, and probably more generally an Abrahamic one. I don&#039;t know enough about most other religions to have a conviction about the falsity (or indeed falsity-aptness) of their ontologies (or their mythologies).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><span class="caps">FWIW </span>Should perhaps have made it clear that I meant a Christianity-relative atheist, and probably more generally an Abrahamic one. I don&#8217;t know enough about most other religions to have a conviction about the falsity (or indeed falsity-aptness) of their ontologies (or their mythologies).</p>
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		<title>By: Katharsis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katharsis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am no Atheist, more Agnostic than anything. I find religion to mirror the morals of society, rather than dictate it. In that sense it&#039;s equivalent to an opinion really. Never absolutely coming out on any side of a debate. There are Evangelicals that feel differently about Gay Marriage albeit a minority. But some feel that religion does dictate morality and therefore is an authority on it simply because it is religion. I viscerally reject these notions. Otherwise religion is not a problem one way or another.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I am no Atheist, more Agnostic than anything. I find religion to mirror the morals of society, rather than dictate it. In that sense it&#8217;s equivalent to an opinion really. Never absolutely coming out on any side of a debate. There are Evangelicals that feel differently about Gay Marriage albeit a minority. But some feel that religion does dictate morality and therefore is an authority on it simply because it is religion. I viscerally reject these notions. Otherwise religion is not a problem one way or another.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Wilkinson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Wilkinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 20:20:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hitchens, C.,  Dawkins (, Grayling) etc take a confrontational and polarising stance because that&#039;s the nasty little niche they&#039;ve carved out. They don&#039;t speak for me nor  I imagine most other atheists. Keeping (ineliminable mention of) religion out of politics is not the same as refusing to cooperate with / denying the good influence of those who happen to profess a particular religion. That would be stoopid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Hitchens, C.,  Dawkins (, Grayling) etc take a confrontational and polarising stance because that&#8217;s the nasty little niche they&#8217;ve carved out. They don&#8217;t speak for me nor  I imagine most other atheists. Keeping (ineliminable mention of) religion out of politics is not the same as refusing to cooperate with / denying the good influence of those who happen to profess a particular religion. That would be stoopid.</p>
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		<title>By: magistra</title>
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		<dc:creator>magistra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 19:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Keith,

If you want to try and read all of my comment, you will note that I specifically mention that some atheists might think MLK was an exception to the general bad influence of religion on politics. The claim by Walt @40 was that no liberals were bothered by the fact that MLK was a minister. I was simply trying to point out that a few atheists, such as Christopher Hitchins were, and that this was logically consistent with his view that nothing good could ever come out of religious belief. I don&#039;t think that is a widespread view among atheists (although I presume many think that more evil than good comes out of religion), but it is a view that exists.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Keith,</p>

	<p>If you want to try and read all of my comment, you will note that I specifically mention that some atheists might think <span class="caps">MLK</span> was an exception to the general bad influence of religion on politics. The claim by Walt @40 was that no liberals were bothered by the fact that <span class="caps">MLK</span> was a minister. I was simply trying to point out that a few atheists, such as Christopher Hitchins were, and that this was logically consistent with his view that nothing good could ever come out of religious belief. I don&#8217;t think that is a widespread view among atheists (although I presume many think that more evil than good comes out of religion), but it is a view that exists.</p>
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		<title>By: Keith</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/06/18/you-start-a-conversation-you-cant-even-finish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-280027</link>
		<dc:creator>Keith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 17:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;As I was trying to say, if you are an atheist liberal who believes that religion is wholly bad and should have no influence in politics, MLK is a serious problem for your position. &lt;/i&gt;

Bullshit. This liberal atheist doesn&#039;t care what rational a person gives for doing what is right in the face of opposition. MLK could have given credit to the Tooth Fairy but it wouldn&#039;t have changed his actions any. He did right. That he was a preacher was immaterial to the cause, as hundreds of other civil rights leaders were secular and did as much good as MLK did. Considering how many other preachers opposed him, he  stands out as the exception that proves the rule and shows what a person can do in spite of his religion.

My opposition to religion in politics still stands though, because for every MLK, there are a dozen Dobsons and Falwells.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><i>As I was trying to say, if you are an atheist liberal who believes that religion is wholly bad and should have no influence in politics, <span class="caps">MLK</span> is a serious problem for your position. </i></p>

	<p>Bullshit. This liberal atheist doesn&#8217;t care what rational a person gives for doing what is right in the face of opposition. <span class="caps">MLK</span> could have given credit to the Tooth Fairy but it wouldn&#8217;t have changed his actions any. He did right. That he was a preacher was immaterial to the cause, as hundreds of other civil rights leaders were secular and did as much good as <span class="caps">MLK</span> did. Considering how many other preachers opposed him, he  stands out as the exception that proves the rule and shows what a person can do in spite of his religion.</p>

	<p>My opposition to religion in politics still stands though, because for every <span class="caps">MLK</span>, there are a dozen Dobsons and Falwells.</p>
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		<title>By: Righteous Bubba</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/06/18/you-start-a-conversation-you-cant-even-finish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-280024</link>
		<dc:creator>Righteous Bubba</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 17:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;As I was trying to say, if you are an atheist liberal who believes that religion is wholly bad and should have no influence in politics, MLK is a serious problem for your position. &lt;/blockquote&gt;Does not follow.  Was it a cabal of atheists holding him down?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><blockquote>As I was trying to say, if you are an atheist liberal who believes that religion is wholly bad and should have no influence in politics, <span class="caps">MLK</span> is a serious problem for your position. </blockquote>Does not follow.  Was it a cabal of atheists holding him down?</p>
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		<title>By: magistra</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/06/18/you-start-a-conversation-you-cant-even-finish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-280023</link>
		<dc:creator>magistra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 17:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Christopher Hitchins explaining why &lt;a href=&quot;http://mrlauer.wordpress.com/2008/04/05/christopher-hitchens-explains-martin-luther-king/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Martin Luther King was in &#039;no real sense&#039; a Christian&lt;/a&gt;.

As I was trying to say, if you are an atheist liberal who believes that religion is wholy bad and should have no influence in politics, MLK is a serious problem for your position. If you are an atheist liberal who is prepared to admit that religion can sometimes or occasionally have a useful influence in politics, he&#039;s not a problem, just an exception to the general rule. (It&#039;s equally a problem for those who believe that religion is always a positive influence in politics to explain away Ian Paisley or the Dutch reform church in apartheid South Africa etc, etc).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Christopher Hitchins explaining why <a href="http://mrlauer.wordpress.com/2008/04/05/christopher-hitchens-explains-martin-luther-king/" rel="nofollow">Martin Luther King was in &#8216;no real sense&#8217; a Christian</a>.</p>

	<p>As I was trying to say, if you are an atheist liberal who believes that religion is wholy bad and should have no influence in politics, <span class="caps">MLK</span> is a serious problem for your position. If you are an atheist liberal who is prepared to admit that religion can sometimes or occasionally have a useful influence in politics, he&#8217;s not a problem, just an exception to the general rule. (It&#8217;s equally a problem for those who believe that religion is always a positive influence in politics to explain away Ian Paisley or the Dutch reform church in apartheid South Africa etc, etc).</p>
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		<title>By: Walt</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/06/18/you-start-a-conversation-you-cant-even-finish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-280002</link>
		<dc:creator>Walt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 02:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, that very sequence of events drove me to become an orthodox Maoist.  I guess my commitment to the people is just a little bit greater than yours, Michael.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>You know, that very sequence of events drove me to become an orthodox Maoist.  I guess my commitment to the people is just a little bit greater than yours, Michael.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Bérubé</title>
		<link>http://crookedtimber.org/2009/06/18/you-start-a-conversation-you-cant-even-finish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-279999</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael Bérubé</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 00:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to be a democratic socialist, myself, but when I found out that liberals are driven crazy by the fact that MLK was  a minister, I got really outraged about something I thought Christopher Hitchens might have said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I used to be a democratic socialist, myself, but when I found out that liberals are driven crazy by the fact that <span class="caps">MLK</span> was  a minister, I got really outraged about something I thought Christopher Hitchens might have said.</p>
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		<title>By: Righteous Bubba</title>
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		<dc:creator>Righteous Bubba</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 19:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I have long ago stopped reading Christopher Hitchins (and I don’t know if he still counts as a liberal) but doesn’t he play down King’s religious side?&lt;/blockquote&gt;I don&#039;t know.  Does he?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><blockquote>I have long ago stopped reading Christopher Hitchins (and I don&#8217;t know if he still counts as a liberal) but doesn&#8217;t he play down King&#8217;s religious side?</blockquote>I don&#8217;t know.  Does he?</p>
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		<title>By: magistra</title>
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		<dc:creator>magistra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 19:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;There are no liberals outside of your head that are bothered by the fact that King was a minister.&lt;/i&gt;

There is a small subset within liberal atheists who are bothered by MLK being a minister because it goes against their belief that religion is always a regressive force and should always be kept out of politics. I have long ago stopped reading Christopher Hitchins (and I don&#039;t know if he still counts as a liberal) but doesn&#039;t he play down King&#039;s religious side?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><i>There are no liberals outside of your head that are bothered by the fact that King was a minister.</i></p>

	<p>There is a small subset within liberal atheists who are bothered by <span class="caps">MLK</span> being a minister because it goes against their belief that religion is always a regressive force and should always be kept out of politics. I have long ago stopped reading Christopher Hitchins (and I don&#8217;t know if he still counts as a liberal) but doesn&#8217;t he play down King&#8217;s religious side?</p>
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		<title>By: Walt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Walt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 19:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Come on.  There are no liberals outside of your head that are bothered by the fact that King was a minister.

Plus, I was around and a devout Protestant in the 70s, and your description of the history is completely wrong.  It happened almost exactly as Maynard described.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Come on.  There are no liberals outside of your head that are bothered by the fact that King was a minister.</p>

	<p>Plus, I was around and a devout Protestant in the 70s, and your description of the history is completely wrong.  It happened almost exactly as Maynard described.</p>
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		<title>By: lemuel pitkin</title>
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		<dc:creator>lemuel pitkin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;the Civil Rights movement did come out of the Churches.&lt;/i&gt;

Not really. The majority of black churches were never supporters of the civil rights movment, and according to Taylor Branch, much of the clergy was actively hostile.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><i>the Civil Rights movement did come out of the Churches.</i></p>

	<p>Not really. The majority of black churches were never supporters of the civil rights movment, and according to Taylor Branch, much of the clergy was actively hostile.</p>
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