Why is comedy more painful than tragedy?

by John Holbo on November 20, 2014

So there’s this bit by Aristotle (famous philosopher) where he discusses tragedy. (If you don’t know it … well, you should Know Your Meme. Do some research, already.) Why do good people like to watch bad things happening to good people, so long as it’s fictional? Katharsis? Related topics: why do people like watching horror movies, since they are scary, and being scared is, apparently, unpleasant?

I don’t have a positive thesis about this, but it strikes me that focus on cases in which the Worst Things happen on stage (or screen) is not focus on the Hardest Cases. Surely if you can explain why it’s fun to watch Lear die, you can explain anything hereabouts! (That seems to be the thought.) I don’t think so. More puzzling: why is comedy more painful than tragedy? Why do I squirm more in my seat at some awkward sit-com misunderstanding than at a lot of blood and gore and murder? It’s kind of a third-personal version of Hume’s puzzle: is it irrational to prefer the destruction of the fictional world to the pricking of a fictional little finger? I’ve watched tons of movies in which the world ends without being very affected. Meh. On the other hand, I can imagine a comedy in which someone accidentally pricks his finger at a dinner party with all this white linen and there is an absurd dilemma concerning how he is going to dispose of one innocent drop of blood and somehow, stupidly, he makes the wrong decision and suddenly the whole room is focused, disapprovingly, on the now apparently huge smear he’s made on an otherwise pristine white space and it’s just excruciating to watch. (Well, ok, maybe I need to send that scenario to rewrite, but you see the point.) I obviously have some way of processing Big Tragedy onstage without suffering too badly. So why do Small Tragedies slip straight past my suspension of disbelief defenses? Why doesn’t whatever allows me to watch dozens of people be gunned down at a wedding, without crying, allow me to watch a single person trip and fall at a fictional wedding, without wincing? It’s the social stuff. Always the social stuff. It hits you like … well, like somebody fell down at a wedding.

It may be I am unusual in my congenital incapacity to distance myself from situations in comedies but I’m hardly unique. Belle tells me she feels the same. Sit-coms cause more horror than horror films. (Not just the bad sit-coms, although those are the worst!)

This leads into the next question: why do I enjoy comedies, if I can’t distance myself from events in them? I wouldn’t like to be at a real wedding where someone fell down. It would be awkward. If the fictional wedding gets to me, like it’s real, why do I like it? It’s relatively obvious why I can watch people die like flies. I can suspend disbelief. But watching them live like fools? Given that I can’t suspend disbelief, at the level of my feelings, how can I stand it?

Possibly Adam Kotsko discusses this in Awkwardness [amazon], but I don’t recall him touching on this puzzle. If it is one.

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Ronan(rf) 11.20.14 at 2:14 am

You should write book synopses professionally. Just shorter :

“So there’s this bit by Aristotle. Why do good people like to watch bad things happening to good people, so long as it’s fictional? We don’t have a positive thesis about this.

More puzzling: why is comedy more painful than tragedy?

Why do we squirm more in our seats at some awkward sit-com misunderstanding than at a lot of blood and gore and murder? We can watch tons of movies in which the world ends without being very affected. Meh.

We obviously have some way of processing Big Tragedy onstage without suffering too badly. So why do Small Tragedies slip straight past our suspension of disbelief defenses? Why doesn’t whatever allows us to watch dozens of people be gunned down at a wedding, without crying, allow us to watch a single person trip and fall at a fictional wedding, without wincing? It’s the social stuff. Always the social stuff. It hits us like … well, like somebody fell down at a wedding.

This leads to the next question: why do we enjoy comedies, if we can’t distance ourselves from events in them? We wouldn’t like to be at a real wedding where someone fell down. It would be awkward. If the fictional wedding gets to us, like it’s real, why do we like it? It’s relatively obvious why we can watch people die like flies. We can suspend disbelief. But watching them live like fools? Given that we can’t suspend disbelief, at the level of my feelings, how can we stand it?

Adam Kotsko answers all these question and more in his new book Awkwardness. It’s awesome”

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Matt 11.20.14 at 2:17 am

Why do I squirm more in my seat at some awkward sit-com misunderstanding than at a lot of blood and gore and murder?

Perhaps you’ve seen so much fictional gore and murder, and so little first-hand gore and murder, that you’ve detached from it in a way that you haven’t about socially awkward situations? My father is a Vietnam vet and he can’t/won’t watch any war movies. Forrest Gump was even too much for him. Whereas I never had to witness the effects of war close up, so I can watch the fictional version without blinking.

But! I wasn’t always so blasé about fictional depictions of violence! One of the good or at least interesting effects of growing up with conservative Christian parents is that I saw fairly little fictional violence on screen until I was in my later teens*. The first time I saw A Nightmare on Elm Street I was 18. I watched the movie clutching the arms of my chair, breathing shallowly, mouth dry. It was probably another 5 years before I could watch a typical horror movie without suffering some unpleasant fight-or-flight responses. It was yet another decade before I would actually choose to watch a horror movie on my own. I still can’t/won’t watch torture porn like the Saw series.

*I understand that most conservative groups fixate on salacious material in entertainment and ignore violence, but my parents weeded out both.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 2:25 am

So don’t leave us hanging, Ronan. Don’t hide Kotsko’s light under a bushel. What’s the answer. I’m perfectly prepared to give him credit for working this angle first. I read about 60 percent of his book about a year ago and got something else out of it. Writing a post about awkwardness I obviously wish to avoid the awkwardness of passing off ideas I got from Adam as my own. I thought of the puzzle this morning, reading student papers on Aristotle. But perhaps the Kotskovian seed was planted before.

Why is comedy more painful than tragedy?

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Ronan(rf) 11.20.14 at 2:35 am

I didnt mean to imply you were stealing Kotsko’s ideas. I dont know him nor he I (I read the post initially as a book recommendation, though humorously done)
Now to my you theory – b/c you associate more easily with the small tragedies, surely ? (or is that too obvious)

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Ronan(rf) 11.20.14 at 2:36 am

typo – *my own* not you

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 2:51 am

That does seem plausible, Ronan. I’ve got my own short list of likely stories but I’ll let others opine first.

As to Kotsko. Honestly, my memory is a bit sketchy but his book is sort of about why ours is the Age of Cringe, comedy-wise. That’s related, obviously. I don’t remember him discussing dusty old Aristotle on tragedy or any of that. I wish him all book sales in this, the pre-pre-Christmas season, and all credit where credit is due. I sort of disagreed with his book, whatever it said. But these things happen.

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JimV 11.20.14 at 3:11 am

I’ve never understood why anyone enjoys watching either horror movies or people embarrassing themselves. My first uniformed guess would be either a lack of, or lack of development of, mirror neurons, but then I realize that since I seem to be the abnormal one it’s probably another symptom of my social anxiety disorder.

The main point of reading a novel or watching actors, for me, is to involve myself vicariously in the characters. In the case of dramas, I root for my favorite characters to succeed, but understand it’s not realistic that the bad guys always lose, so I accept the occasional downer for the sake of verisimilitude – and because the lessons of failure can be more useful than the lessons of success. I’ve never felt any wish to see King Lear. I hear it’s a real downer, despite all the useful lessons it probably contains.

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tony lynch 11.20.14 at 3:28 am

In any focused sense comedy is not more painful to watch than tragedy. The pain in tragedy is such that it fixes us to our seat. There is no such fixing with comedy. You can heckle, walk out, etc with the greatest of ease.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 3:31 am

“The pain in tragedy is such that it fixes us to our seat. There is no such fixing with comedy.”

There is a certain truth to this. Tragedy nails us to our chairs. Comedy makes us squirm in our seats.

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LFC 11.20.14 at 3:33 am

from the OP:
Related topics: why do people like watching horror movies, since they are scary, and being scared is, apparently, unpleasant?

As a rule, I do not like watching horror movies. I would never pay to watch a horror movie in the theater or on my computer, the only two ways I can watch movies at the moment (having at the moment neither an operative TV nor DVD player). The last horror movie I can offhand remember watching in a theater was Alien when I was in high school (yes, I’m revealing my age here), which I found, iirc: (1) somewhat scary, in the slink-down-in-one’s-seat, maybe-half-cover-one’s-eyes way, (2) disgusting (in the literal sense), and (3) basically without redeeming feature, with the possible exception of a bit of Sigourney Weaver’s performance. An exception to my dislike of horror movies is Carrie, which I happened to see most of on TV some years ago. It didn’t strike me as scary so much as silly, perhaps because the premise spurned-adolescent-wreaks-major-havoc-at-high-school-prom is ridiculous. (In addition to not liking horror movies, I don’t as a rule like most movie comedies.)

I don’t, however, much mind a certain amt of violence in war movies, probably b/c of having been desensitized to media depictions of such violence and not having seen the real thing up close. I do recall feeling tension when watching The Hurt Locker (which I saw on DVD when I had a working one) when the protagonist approaches the bombs to be defused and you don’t know whether he’s going to survive or be injured or blown up. (As I recall, the director of that movie won an Oscar.)

Ok, I realize none of this anecdotal rambling addresses Holbo’s theoretical/philosophical/literary/whatever questions, but so be it.

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ZM 11.20.14 at 3:40 am

“Surely if you can explain why it’s fun to watch Lear die, you can explain anything hereabouts! (That seems to be the thought.) I don’t think so. More puzzling: why is comedy more painful than tragedy?”

I think you must have gone to a very poor production of King Lear if at the end you were thinking “what fun!” We studied the play in year 9 and went to a good production of it, and I was definitely not thinking at the end that Lear’s death was fun or that it was a fun play overall. More like harrowing.

I suppose perhaps you wrote “fun” but mean a different sort of concept instead, and could be asking the question that came up on Maria’s soldier funeral post about why humans make aesthetic representations of terrible events. But as that is not what you have actually asked, I had better not digress about it.

I do not find US cringe comedy very funny, usually just mean, so I mostly avoid watching these movies or television shows. The accidentally pricking ones finger and bleeding on a damask cloth example is not overly cringeworthy for me — it does remind me of something that could happen in the Gilmore Girls which might be why you find it cringeworthy ;-)

I have not read much comedy from the classical world, but are you sure it is so similar to contemporary cringe comedy?

I quite like older comedy like musical comedy or screwball comedy or buster keaton. There was a funny Australian comedy series a while ago called Sea Change which was pleasantly comic. I do not know why comedy has gone so downhill.

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LFC 11.20.14 at 3:42 am

P.s. The only philosophical thing about comedy and tragedy I’ve read in the last, say, 15 or 20 yrs and vaguely remember is I. Murdoch’s discussion in Metaphysics as a Guide to Morals, which I have no idea whether Holbo would like. (I sort of suspect he wouldn’t, but who knows.)

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LFC 11.20.14 at 3:47 am

The reference by JimV @7 to mirror neurons is interesting, since I just a saw a ref to them the other day. One does wonder whether some neurobiological empathic response has been temporarily switched off or otherwise muffled, allowing a lot of people (though not me) to enjoy horror movies.

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js. 11.20.14 at 3:58 am

The worst is when comedy and (some aspects of) tragedy combine: the second series of the Office (UK version – obviously!) was one long extremely painful squirm, but at the same time, so so awesome. I don’t have any theories about this.

As to horror, it might be worth noting that at least some of us watch horror films because they don’t scare us and sometimes they make for genuinely good cinema, I’m thinking 70s Italian, Romero, Carpenter, that sort of thing (also, Carrie is incredible of course). I realize that this is an extreme minority position re horror films, but the point is that I don’t think I would watch horror films if I thought I’d be scared of them.

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ZM 11.20.14 at 4:11 am

“As to horror, it might be worth noting that at least some of us watch horror films because they don’t scare us and sometimes they make for genuinely good cinema…”

I think horror movies are mostly in the trash genre. Being trash means aesthetically they are so poor that it is hard to find them very affecting – but then the events they portray are so awful – so it is like a see-saw between trash representational forms that work to produce a feeling of distance in the audience and then the awful thing being represented which produces scarey-ness – but you don’t get stuck in the scarey-ness because of the trashiness.

I do not watch horror movies anymore though (unless doctor who counts?) so this is more how they affected me, I suppose people who watch them regularly might feel differently.

It was thought at the end of primary school/start of high school that watching horror movies or reading Stephen king was very adult, so it was the thing to do. This was a silly idea, but nevertheless…

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Alan White 11.20.14 at 4:18 am

Maybe there’s a parallel two-dimensionalist sliding-scale theory here: comedy is proportionally painful and funny as a function of close possible worlds whereby the closer the funnier and more painful (by easier identification of the pain of our being clueless or embarrassed) and the remote less painful and less funny (by seeming forced and preposterous as less identifiably representing our own lives), and tragedy likewise possible-world indexed in terms of identifiable sorrow and regret (and horror). We suspend belief and emotions as the worlds traipse off in bizarre ways; we attach appropriate emotions to worlds too close for comfort, where comfort is a function of identification-access to those worlds. The comparative excellence of The Book of Mormon and Death of a Salesman have one thing in common: these are close to many lives in many ways. What fascinates me is that these themes can be serialized as in All in the Family and L&O: SVU. We keep coming back to comfort and criticize ourselves (as objectified in people “thankfully” not us) in both comedy and tragedy. Maybe the common theme is that it is all about us, but maybe–even in close worlds–maybe, just not quite us. And that is a relief.

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gianni 11.20.14 at 4:20 am

A very interesting question. My thoughts right now are confused, so I can’t quite muster an answer as of yet.

Just wanted to note that your ‘oh no my finger is bleeding at this fancy event and I have no way to not bleed on everything’ scenario really gets me. After watching a good bit of Game of Thrones, I am fairly desensitized to blood and gore and even at this point torture (was all that really necessary HBO?). But the image of being gross at a fancy dinner without a way to stop the slow drip of social faux pax is actually harrowing to me. I have had nightmares that are similar.

Reading this back make me think ‘gosh gianni, you really are deranged’.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 4:21 am

“none of this anecdotal rambling addresses Holbo’s theoretical/philosophical/literary/whatever questions, but so be it.”

No, the rambling is actually good because I am quite sure that there is a wide range of individual and cultural and social variation. Belle and I agree we find sit-coms excruciating. Our instinct is that probably we are unusual in that regard. I find sit-comedy harder to take as I age. Possibly because comedies so often center on teenagers and I keep shouting ‘get off my lawn!’ at the screen. To me, it just seems like what nature intended me to do.

I just re-opened Kotsko’s “Awkwardness” for the first time in 3 years, apparently. (Geeze time flies. I’m getting so I don’t know what decade it is.)

My basic disagreement with the book, I now recall, was that Kotsko does not sufficiently distinguish awkwardness from incongruity. So he’s sort of reinventing the incongruity theory of comedy. That takes us back to Kant’s 3rd critique, and Schopenhauer rings some changes in the notion, on down the years. Kotsko also introduces the notion of ‘radical awkwardness’ but I think he does not sufficiently distinguish it from plain vanilla absurdism, which is certainly an interesting concept, but not exactly fresh territory.

Kant says “In everything that is to excite a lively convulsive laugh there must be something absurd (in which the understanding, therefore, can find no satisfaction). Laughter is an affection arising from the sudden transformation of a strained expectation into nothing.” He then tells a not very funny joke about an Indian who is surprised by bubbles coming foaming out of beer, because he wonders how someone got them in there.

Judd Apatow, I feel sure, would manage to make the surprise foaming beer scene harsher, probably by means of some misunderstanding about the true source of the foaming white stuff all over the protagonist’s face, and then someone innocently wonders how anyone could ever manage to get it all back into the thing it came out of. And on and on! Anyhoo, Kant shouldn’t quit his day job as a philosopher. He’ll never make it as Konigsbergian King of Cringe.

Basically, incongruity theory was born in an era of gentler comedic norms. But at the conceptual level, awkwardness and incongruity are not so distinct. Kotsko is really talking about painful awkwardness (rather than painless incongruity), but that merely raises – without answering – why is this Apatovian stuff in fact painful, merely because it is awkward, given we know it’s not real?

Schopenhauer’s incongruity theory is closer to Kotsko’s awkwardness theory than Kant’s but never mind that.

Searching inside – thanks, Kindle! – I find no occurrences of ‘absurdism’ or ‘absurdity’ in Kotsko’s book, despite its nearness to his ‘radical awkwardness’. Only one occurrence of ‘incongruity’. I don’t mean to be pedantic, insisting an essay on contemporary comedy be transmogrified into a pocket history of German theories of comedy. (But he does discuss Heidegger!)

But I do like Kotsko’s point that what makes Seinfeld less awkward – less painful – is that the characters are all sociopaths, except George. Hence he suffers most. That is very true.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 4:27 am

“I think you must have gone to a very poor production of King Lear if at the end you were thinking “what fun!””

I was joking. Read ‘fun’ as katharsis. I wrote a poem about it once. It goes like this.

The original Aristotelian,
Plato’s pupil, opined like a Delian
Between tragic and farce is
This difference: katharsis!
(Though the terms a semantic chameleon.)

I condensed my limerick into a single word: fun. Some semantic loss occurred in the process.

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bad Jim 11.20.14 at 4:31 am

I dislike the sort of comedy which invites us to laugh at stupid people, which seems to be pretty commonplace these days. It makes me sad or angry instead. I do laugh at action films; the absurd choreography of events comes straight out of farce.

Perhaps the horror movies being referenced are the sort parodied in the hilarious Geico commercial. The ones I remember from my youth were SF/fantasy. The last modern instance of the genre I encountered was Cockneys vs Zombies which was mostly gently humorous, despite the prodigious deployment of automatic weapons.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 4:33 am

” a pocket history of German theories of comedy”

I really am a marketing genius, aren’t I. How can I not have been discovered?

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Alan White 11.20.14 at 4:34 am

John–your excellent limerick condenses my whole post into a Lewisian word–“fun”.

Of course I mean Lewis as in Jerry as well as David.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 4:37 am

“After watching a good bit of Game of Thrones, I am fairly desensitized to blood and gore”

That’s brilliant, gianni! Thanks for doing the rewrite for me. The episode is called “The Red Wedding” and an overall GoT parody frame fills out the space around the pricked finger.

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bad Jim 11.20.14 at 4:40 am

The pricked finger annoys me; I’d just put it in my mouth. The same is true for any wound I could reach with my tongue. (Yes, my younger sister was a dog.)

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Gabriel 11.20.14 at 4:43 am

“on the now apparently huge smear he’s made on an otherwise pristine white space and it’s just excruciating to watch. (Well, ok, maybe I need to send that scenario to rewrite, but you see the point.)”
Actually, you more or less just described the only funny scene in the 1981 Chevy Chase movie “Modern Problems”

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 4:43 am

“The pricked finger annoys me; I’d just put it in my mouth.”

Obviously you have to finesse it so the character can’t take the easy way out. He’s sitting right across from his mother-in-law-to-be and, for the past two days, she keeps catching him with a finger in his mouth and she has been complaining to his fiancee about his infantile oral fixation, so he can’t risk getting caught again. That’s when it all goes to hell.

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Omega Centauri 11.20.14 at 4:47 am

I think it may have a lot to do with our ability to put ourselves in the mind of the characters. In classical tragedy the characters are so obviously from almost forgotten times with strange speech and odd (to moderns) social customs, so we just can’t really feel “there but for the gace of the deity go I). I suspect thats going to be true of most modern horror too, its so over the top that we can laugh at the over-the-top-ness, and not get a sense that that could happen in the real world.

Now, when you combine the two, -ability to project ourselves into the characters/situation and terrible violence, I find it does affect me. I had to stop watching the Tudors, and even though I love it, the same may happen with Vikings, because the violence was just too awful. Whereas watching a guy in a rubber Godzilla suit destroying Tokyo is just over-the-top silly fun.

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tony lynch 11.20.14 at 5:00 am

Embarrassment makes us squirm. Horror transfixes us. How do we subsume both under a general notion of “painfulness”? Even if we can do this, what does it tell us, except that we can deploy such a general notion? (I suppose the really interesting question might be why we want to deploy that general notion here at all.)

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 5:01 am

OK, at the risk of derailing my own thread: another way to do the pricked finger thing would be as a Macbeth parody – sort of. The poor guy is elaborately trying to keep from dripping any blood on the linen and somehow (this needs work) this avoidance behavior results in him accidentally stabbing a waiter to death and now he has to conceal the body in a closet while still making sure no blood gets on anything. And thing just reels out of control from there. The joke would be that, even as the bodies pile up, he is still frantically concerned not to let a drop get on the linen, because mother-in-law, and his stupid thumb keeps bleeding, all the while.

The trick would be to keep the audience compulsively worrying about the comedy problem, even in the face of tragedy. (No problem, really, because comedy is more painful.)

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Glen Tomkins 11.20.14 at 5:02 am

Well, Aristotle also tells us that comedies have characters who are worse than real people, while tragedy has characters better than actual people.

Somewhere in the middle of the action you may squirm for the comic panourgos as he gets himself into embarrassingly low-rent traps, but in the happy ending fate heaps completely unearned good fortune on him. This is why Dante classified his magnum opus as a comedy — scumbag man gets wholly undeserved salvation in the end.

Conversely, the tragic hero gets built up in the middle of the action as larger and more real than life, someone much more able to surf the waves of fate than we are (A personal favorite is Othello in I, ii-iii. “Put up your bright swords, for the dew will rust them.”, and all that follows.), and makes us feel better as we bask in the reflected glow. But that very nobility gets him all kapa kai with the real world we shlubs have built, and he gets a wholly undeserved bad end.

I wouldn’t get confused by the absence of much emotional reaction to blockbuster cinema mass destruction. It’s never actually tragic, in that that sort of thing never shows us the society that gets destroyed in the end as something unusually good or competent, that gets destroyed in the end precisely because it’s better than the actual shlubbery we live in. That kind of effort is just special effects, it isn’t really trying to build up to either sort of emotional release, so there’s nothing at stake.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 5:06 am

“Embarrassment makes us squirm. Horror transfixes us. How do we subsume both under a general notion of “painfulness”?”

‘Pain’ is too approximate, I agree. We feel negative emotions, albeit different ones. My point would be that the intensity of the embarrassment-by-proxy we feel, about comedy, seems often to exceed the intensity of grief-by-proxy we feel, in the face of tragedy. Why should this be? One might think that the intensity of the emotion you feel is equal to the intensity you would feel about the real thing, just subject to some general rate of belief suspension discount. But that doesn’t seem to be how it goes. Tragedy gets discounted. Comedy does not.

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ZM 11.20.14 at 5:09 am

Actually John Holbo this would work better as Hamlet rather than Macbeth , you could redo Hamlet’s killing of Polonius (Hamlet’s father in law to be) that way , although you would have to change the plot significantly. I do not think it would be all that comic – but maybes you could make it like a troma movie? You would have to think up a title joke though…

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 5:18 am

“If it were done when ’tis done, then ’twere well/It were done quickly” – Macbeth

Too la-dee-dah for Troma, obviously.

If we go the Red Wedding way it would be a good idea to make a reaction reel of audience members seeing the drips, an homage to the reaction reel of audience’s seeing the “Red Wedding” episode. (Obviously this is sort of a counter-example to the ‘comedy affects us more’, since “Red Wedding” had folks clawing the walls. But you might be able to get people looking intensely embarrassed when it’s just a drop of blood!)

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TM 11.20.14 at 5:24 am

I for one can’t relate to Holbo’s dilemma. There’s a few of us who don’t think horror movies are fun. Maybe it is worthwhile asking how you get to the point of being able to enjoy it. I’m not convinced it’s the “normal” state, if there is such a thing.

Also, I’m curious if we know whether the Greeks perceived watching a tragedy “fun”. My understanding is that there *was* supposed to be pain felt by the viewer (wasn’t it that people were even paid to attend?) But anyway, why compare tragedy to horror movies, personalized drama to special effects mass destruction?

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Nine 11.20.14 at 5:24 am

“More puzzling: why is comedy more painful than tragedy? Why do I squirm more in my seat at some awkward sit-com misunderstanding than at a lot of blood and gore and murder?”

I don’t think this is demonstrably true for all values of “I”. Young girls weep like babies and grown women weep like young girls – everyone weeps – when Leonardo DiCaprio dies in a movie.
However, if one does accept the premise, then a possible explanation might be that the median person can expect to find herself in an embarrassingly comedic wodehouse like situation several times in the normal run of their life. Almost no one, tending to zero, will ever suffer a zombie attack ever. In fact, since the subject is Tragedy, we can safely assert that almost no one will ever have to avenge the death of their father at the hands of their uncle for the throne of Denmark. And yet even so people weep when Mel Gibson shuffles off the mortal coil.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 5:29 am

“Also, I’m curious if we know whether the Greeks perceived watching a tragedy “fun”.”

I already addressed this one but it’s a fair cop, so I may as well cop to it twice. That was sloppy. ‘Fun’ is obviously not the right word. It isn’t obvious what the right word is so I just put an obviously wrong one in its place, as a joke placeholder. People sit through tragedies for a reason. ‘Fun’ isn’t it. But something is.

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tony lynch 11.20.14 at 5:55 am

So it is the intensity of the occurrent feelings that counts. And the thing is that comedy can generate the greater intensity. Sort of like fingernails raking down a blackboard is a minor thing in fact, but extraordinarily teeth-setting-on-edge excruciating. You can torture somebody with comedy, but not tragedy.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 6:04 am

“So it is the intensity of the occurrent feelings that counts. And the thing is that comedy can generate the greater intensity”

I’m very much working it out as I go, tony. But yes, that’s the working notion. The bright idea that I had and then wrote as a post without thinking it through.

I would say, a bit more specifically: the greater negative intensity, relative to the intensity you would expect such a subject to inspire, if it were real.

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bad Jim 11.20.14 at 6:09 am

I hate to be obvious, but I have to be: comedy concerns the normal, tragedy the extraordinary. I’ve been through the deaths of my grandparents, my parents and a sister-in-law. None of those events were tragic. Comedy, however, is something I often encounter visiting my 7yo nephew, and if it isn’t there I can manufacture it. I’m teaching him how to tell jokes. He’s an avid student, and I’ve found that I can use The Force to tickle him, hands-free. Their dog has a different response.

I won’t go so far as to say that tragedy isn’t realistic, but it’s not a term I’d apply to any of the people I’ve known who’ve died.

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John Holbo 11.20.14 at 6:23 am

“comedy concerns the normal, tragedy the extraordinary.”

I don’t buy it. Comedy can be surreal and impossible. I sure hope your life isn’t like a Judd Apatow comedy every day, bad Jim. That would really wear you down. Life isn’t actually like “Seinfeld”, even though “Seinfeld” is superficially low-key, creating the illusion that it is lifelike. An episode of “Seinfeld” is as artificial as “Oedipus”. On the other hand, tragedy can be normal. Everyday. “Death of a Salesman”. Aristotle thinks tragic heroes have to be extraordinary, elevated types. But I think we have mostly given up that aristocratic notion. Tragedy in a democratic culture can be very normal. Even banal.

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ZM 11.20.14 at 6:37 am

I am offended by the notion that females necessarily cry at Leonardo DiCaprio movies. The movie with him in spoiled Romeo and Juliette for me, and even though the Zefferrelli(sp?) one is better, it is still one of Shakespeare’s plays I esteem less well (not as less well as Pericles though).

The same goes for Mel Gibson, when we had to study Hamlet for year 10 we had to watch his version and none of my friends thought it very good, and Mel Gibson was too old for the character given it is a cinematic production not a theatrical production. The age is important because Hamlet is such a young man character . I saw a good filmed theatre version last year with an actor who was possibly slightly too old too, but since he captured the character with insight and very well age did not matter as much as it did with Mel Gibson.

John Holbo,

I just mentioned Hamlet would work better if your were making an horror-farce adaptation because the murder of Polonius was largely accidental so it would go with your plot about mounting up inadvertant killings, even the final killings sort of happen in hot blood. Macbeth is more premeditated.

If you want to keep Shakespeare’s verses though I am not sure how you would do this as a comedy? I suppose you could have the actors play everything so poorly it would have a comic aesthetic due to bad acting, this seems rather pointless though.

I think you would need to make this division between plot and the aesthetic qualities that mediate the plot.

A Midsummer Night’s Dream sort of parodies Romeo and Juliet with the rude mechanicals production of Pyramus and Thisbe (although Shakespeare does it very well to leave you in two minds because as the audience you watch the Greek audience in the play watching and critiquing Pyramus and Thisbe and the Greek’s are rather heartless and Shakespeare gives Bottom a nice speech that references Corinthians and In Praise of Folly).

Anyway that sums up the trouble – in a representation the plot is not really enough it has to be matched with either the writer/player having high and suited aesthetics, or kindness on the part of the audience to be moved by poor writing/acting etc.

Neither of these are necessarily forthcoming due to variable talent levels and variable kindness levels.

Also in the 20th C there was such a proliferation of confessional writing of variable quality – so because it is confessional you are sort of put in the position as the audience that you have to be as sympathetic to these confessions as you would if your friend confided such-and-such to you — except it is not your friend it an artistic representation which you would normally be allowed to judge by aesthetics, except if someone makes it confessional or copies out their wife’s angry letters like Robert Lowell it becomes not just a question of aesthetics — it escapes the frame.

Although I guess this was always the case to some degree, the collapse of formal literary and artistic forms in the 20th C and invention of mass media and mass literacy did alter things somewhat I would say. I find it problematic.

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Meredith 11.20.14 at 6:51 am

“Why is comedy more painful than tragedy?” Because it is less optimistic? I suspect yes.
Just yesterday I was distinguishing intestines (entera) from innards (splachna) with students reading Agamemnon. None of this was “fun.” (Alas, Cassandra! Gone is sacred Troy.) But we found in our carnality something to hang onto. Aristophanes, well he is so carnally alive but then pulls the rug out from under us at the end. Much more to discuss. Tired, in part from preparing Aeschylus (hard!). (Aristophanes would be too, of course. The language strains, comedy or tragedy.)

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Shane 11.20.14 at 7:24 am

I had a related experience watching “From Beyond” (not bad for a certain kind of horror, spoilers follow). My friends and I, all teen boys, were delighted by all the impossible gore and ick and monsters – not bothered at all – until in the closing moments a character falls a few stories and breaks their knee on landing.

We gave a collective groan and flinched. The wound was not graphic at all, but convincingly done and I could easily imagine doing it, and how it would feel.

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bad Jim 11.20.14 at 8:10 am

Perhaps I’ve spent too much time in hospitals to understand tragedy. In business, crushed dreams are the norm. It’s probably true of every endeavor. Misery is everywhere, if you care to notice it.

Humor, in contrast, is something one has to manufacture; though laughing is itself effortless, it requires a distinction to be made between what is and what should be, but it’s easy, since humans, with their pretensions, are always teetering on the brink of ridiculousness.

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Sasha Clarkson 11.20.14 at 9:02 am

There is much comedy I can’t sit through; like John it makes me squirm. Laurel and Hardy comes to mind for me: it’s too well written and acted for me to be able to suspend empathy.

On the other had, a badly written tragedy, or ham acting, makes it impossible to suspend disbelief enough to have any empathy at all with the fictional characters. B-movie horror can be particularly bad, and then the banality becomes hilarious! :)

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Sasha Clarkson 11.20.14 at 9:12 am

PS …. and if you can’t suspend empathy enough, you won’t enjoy the cruelty – even of humiliating the bad guy: Malvolio say.

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Tony Lynch 11.20.14 at 9:24 am

But the comedy can be real and in the real. Imagine you see someone sneeze all over their entree, and see the look of horror cross their face. Noone knows but you, and you watch them eat the entree (the boss is there). Same excruciating squirm in the seat as watching it on stage. So not sure about the “if it were real” idea.

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Phil 11.20.14 at 9:24 am

Comparing good comedy to trashy horror (or assuming all horror is trashy) is too easy. Also, not all comedy pivots on frustration in this way, although a surprising amount of it does (who would have thought there was a single overall heading for Curb Your Enthusiasm and Laurel and Hardy?)

So: let’s assume we’re comparing good comedy-of-embarrassment (quiz night in The Office*, L&H moving the piano) and good horror (your suggestion here; I’d go for Pan’s Labyrinth or Repulsion, although the scariest film I’ve ever seen remains The Tenant). Then, I think, the problem solves itself: the difference is… there is no difference: in both cases you engage emotionally with somebody for whom things go wrong, then go wrong again, and then get worse. And there aren’t many laughs in either of them, except the laugh of surprise.

(This doesn’t really work, because L&H make me fall about laughing. But I think it’s a start.)

*The original; YOMV, and I’d be surprised if it included a convincing Finchy.

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ZM 11.20.14 at 9:30 am

“Perhaps I’ve spent too much time in hospitals to understand tragedy. In business, crushed dreams are the norm. It’s probably true of every endeavor. Misery is everywhere, if you care to notice it.”

I do not think tragedy is really the same as misery or sadness – I am not really sure how to differentiate it if you are talking about real life rather than representations. Representations are formal and aesthetic , so they are different from real life.

In my shire I can think of two public events that are tragedies

One was when I was small and I do not remember it so well but in my memory the local policemen who was a likeable man was called out one night to an incident and was shot , and it was found his wife had a lover and they devised this plot between them.

The other was more recent and a revenge tragedy where a young man was killed in a drink driving accident and his father stewed and stewed in his grief… It was very heartbreaking for the dead boy’s mother and others and very much rocked the shire.

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Z 11.20.14 at 9:41 am

It may be I am unusual in my congenital incapacity to distance myself from situations in comedies but I’m hardly unique.

You are not alone! I feel intense and painful embarrassment at watching someone else’s embarrassment. There is the scene, in a French movie called Le Péril Jeune, where one of the main characters and his love interest are about to share their first kiss. But neither of them has the courage to initiate it, so instead, they stand. In silent. Next to each other. For one full minute at least. In some sense, it is the antithesis of cinema: nothing is happening, no sound, no movement. So painful to me, it is almost impossible to watch.

Anyway, I’m with Bad Jim: it has everything to do with the realistic projection of the emotional response. You presumably react particularly strongly to the embarrassing scenes which you care about, either because you have experienced them or because they would cause you embarrassment (even in some sort of meta way, as for instance the Harry Potter series manages to carefully construct). You presumably don’t care so much about the characters massacred by a serial killer in a generic horror movie, and you presumably don’t cringe so much when exposed to a supposedly awkward situation that is alien culturally or psychologically to you (unless we have known military training, we are usually not embarrassed by Gomer Pyle’s failure in Full Metal Jacket, for instance, nor do we cringe so much at the cancelled duels in L’Éducation sentimentale or Zweig’s Scharlach).

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Harald K 11.20.14 at 10:25 am

I would think it’s pretty obvious: You haven’t experienced having your family gunned down in your wedding, or your school taken over by brainwashing parasites, etc. You have probably experienced the odd embarrassing social situation. It hits closer to home, gets harder to distance yourself from emotionally. It’s not comedy vs. tragedy as such, there’s just a lot more in comedies than in tragedies that you can relate to as a healthy, reasonably happy person.

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Peter Erwin 11.20.14 at 11:06 am

Comedy can be surreal and impossible.

Well, yes, but I would think if it gets really surreal and impossible, the “cringe & squirm” element tends to weaken or go away. Do you cringe during Monty Python skits the same way you cringe during typical sitcom scenes?

On the other hand, tragedy can be normal. Everyday. “Death of a Salesman”. Aristotle thinks tragic heroes have to be extraordinary, elevated types. But I think we have mostly given up that aristocratic notion. Tragedy in a democratic culture can be very normal. Even banal.

To be fair, your initial examples — horror movies, Lear, and “movies in which the world ends” — are not really “normal”.

I think it partly is a matter of “realism” in the restricted sense of “Yes, I can imagine situations sort of like that, and I’ve even been the butt of jokes or made a fool of myself.” Whereas traditional tragedies, horror stories, and end-of-the-world stories lack, for most of us, that element of fundamental, personal-experience plausibility. This ties in with what Matt (@2) said (e.g., “My father is a Vietnam vet and he can’t/won’t watch any war movies. Forrest Gump was even too much for him. Whereas I never had to witness the effects of war close up, so I can watch the fictional version without blinking.”) See also posts by Shane @43, Z @50, and Harold K @51.

As for more “normal”, “democratic” tragedies versus comedy: I think there might also be a difference between how the events are treated and how the audience (and at least some of the other characters in the story) react to the misfortunes. In tragedy, the reaction includes a mixture of sadness and (some element of) sympathy. Things may be bad, but the nominal seriousness of the form lends the situation, and the afflicted characters, some measure of dignity and even elevation.

In comedy, on the other hand — especially the social awkwardness form that sitcoms often deal with — the reaction of the other characters and especially the audience is to laugh at the character in question. It’s mockery and (casual, momentary) contempt rather than sympathy, and that hurts.

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Zamfir 11.20.14 at 11:19 am

In the same vein as phil above: teh difference is less between comedy and tragedy in themselves, but in the particular instances we encounter.

Comedies can go all-out in enticing the squirm of normal-day situations, because most people can take even the most extreme squirm enticable. But (mainstream) tragedies will rarely do the same. They could push much harder on realism, on identification, on making you really feel it. And the audience would quit

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Main Street Muse 11.20.14 at 11:57 am

Good comedy makes me laugh. The opening of Pride & Prejudice had me laugh out loud, but I was older when I read it. The original In-Laws is hilarious (Peter Falk/Alan Arkin version.) Something about Mary had moments of epic comic brilliance. In terms of sitcoms, I enjoyed Friends during its run, but perhaps may find it cringe-worthy now. And I love improv shows, thanks to my many years in the second city – where the Second City was the king of comedy. Making people laugh is a true gift, and like all great gifts, kind of rare.

Bad comedy makes me bored. And MANY sit-coms are bad comedy – so that is a different discussion than the impact of comedy overall as cringe-inducing.

A pricked finger that bleeds makes me cringe because I’m not good with needles. I would not worry about what people thought about the blood; I would just find something to wrap the bloody finger in to prevent stains.

As humans, we are a jumble of logic and emotions. We adore being moved, which requires the manipulation of story telling. Stories help us create order out of chaos and sometimes we need laughter and sometimes we need tears to help us understand this world.

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Neville Morley 11.20.14 at 12:55 pm

I don’t have an answer, but the other day I came across a possible word for it: Fremdschämen. At any rate it describes my tendency to over-identify massively with someone being humorously humiliated on screen. As far as I’m concerned, Frasier is a weekly horror series.

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LFC 11.20.14 at 1:11 pm

J Holbo @18:
(Geeze time flies. I’m getting so I don’t know what decade it is.)

In comment @10 I said I saw Alien in high school. The movie database corrects me: it was released in 1979 apparently, hence as I was finishing college. I would not want anyone to think I am younger than I am. ;)

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mdc 11.20.14 at 1:52 pm

The answer sort of lying on the table is that squirmy comedies don’t effect katharsis. This makes a kind of sense, especially if you take katharsis to mean *not* a ‘getting rid of something’ but an ‘elevating into a purer form of something’. The squirmy comedies don’t raise up awkwardness into an object of contemplation, but distill it in order to burrow in, and let fester.

Some comedies do have a kathartic effect, however. Some of Aristophanes, As You Like It, It Happened One Night… come to think of it, even Superbad is sort of kathartic.

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Ronan(rf) 11.20.14 at 2:01 pm

I agree with bad jim, Phil et al that it seems to be mostly a result of situations you associate yourself with, as the first part of an explanation. Which I was trying to get at above.
Without giving too much away about my aesthetic delights, I would say that I dont think I squirm too much at comedy either. The first two seasons of Jersey Shore did it for me, which worries me (a little)

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SusanC 11.20.14 at 2:03 pm

Comedy often seems to involve an element of fear, whether it’s small fears (social anxieties) or major ones.

I offer as an extreme example Hannah Arendt’s Eichmann in Jerusalem. It clearly has the right structure to be a comedy if you track down one of “history’s greatest monsters” and discover that they’re a rather weak individual. A very dark comedy.

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Ze Kraggash 11.20.14 at 2:17 pm

What Zamfir 53 said. Some high-body-count dramas are extremely painful to watch.

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Stephenson-quoter kun 11.20.14 at 2:21 pm

Is it perhaps that the victims of tragedy somehow deserve what happens to them, but the victims of comedy don’t?

The ‘somehow’ is doing a lot of work in that sentence, but my rough idea would be that we know that the tragic hero is tempting fate by being so heroic, whereas the victims of comedy are just ordinary people being dumped on by extraordinarily bad circumstances. We’re OK with the tragic hero dying at the end because that’s basically the plot of the new testament and we’ve had about 2000 years to get used to it, but it’s really not obvious why Adam Sandler’s life needs to be so full of mishap.

This fits with the fact that the cringe-comedies that I can watch are the ones where dislikeable people suffer – Fawlty Towers, The Office, Curb Your Enthusiasm – all of which feature characters who are both dislikeable and in possession of such enormous self-regard that they are somewhat immune to suffering any psychological consequences for even their worst mistakes. Adam Sandler seems to be able to tap in to our general dislike of Adam Sandler such that we can enjoy watching bad things happen to him even if it’s not justified by his character’s actions, and this makes it OK.

Having got to the end of this I have realised that what I’m saying is that I like watching things where status reversals happen, which is not quite the same thing as (dis)likeability. The Office, Fawlty Towers and CYE all feature a modestly powerful straight white male who thinks he knows how the world works (or should work) being confounded by it not working like that at all. Comedies I don’t like generally involve a loser character who continues to experience further bad luck with only minimal redemption (which would explain why I never really liked Mr. Bean). This also applies to tragedies – the Red Wedding was basically one big giant status reversal too, and GoT generally deals very effectively in status reversals.

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J Thomas 11.20.14 at 2:37 pm

Let’s say that people are built to experience a full range of emotions. But their actual lives don’t provide them with that range. So one of the things art does is to give them opportunities to exercise the feelings that are deficient in their lives.

But not too much. Better if the art provides a way to tie it up and close it off, so the unresolved feelings don’t just bleed out. If I get a feeling that reminds me of something unpleasant from years back (because that sort of unpleasantness doesn’t happen to me a whole lot, so i don’t get reminded that much), I don’t want to leave still reminded.

For myself, when I’m in a physical tragedy I focus on things to do, ways I can salvage something from it. I put the feelings aside and concentrate on what I can do, and deal with the feelings later. Then when I watch a representation of a physical tragedy it’s excruciating. I see things that look like mistakes and watch them unfold and there’s nothing at all I can do about it. I can’t give anyone assistance, I can’t even give advice, I have to just watch it happen.

Physical comedies are the same way except they’re supposed to be funny. Laughing about the tragedy is a way to alleviate the feelings.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_Vfxuk8x_A

But more of the comedy I see is social comedy. Somebody wants to hide stuff about himself from a group of people because they will think badly of him if they find out. So he goes to increasingly ridiculous lengths, and it’s increasingly unlikely that they are deceived, until it all falls apart. Then if he’s a sympathetic character they forgive him, or they turn out to be not worth lying for. If he’s an unsympathetic character then he gets punished.

In sex comedies people hide their affairs from other people, or they have some reason to hide their feelings from themselves and each other, and it’s supposed to be funny. It gets resolved and the other person likes them or doesn’t, and maybe there’s some social chaos as various hypocritical people get exposed.

As near as I can see, the difference between tragedy and comedy is that with comedy you have permission to laugh and avoid the tragic feelings.

“We do not joke,” said Nessus. “My species has no sense of humor.”

“Strange. I would have thought that humor was an aspect of intelligence.”

“No. Humor is associated with an interrupted defense mechanism.”

“All the same -”

“Speaker, no sapient being ever interrupts a defense mechanism.”

Larry Niven, Ringworld

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John Garrett 11.20.14 at 3:06 pm

Since Vietnam, I also do not watch violent movies: first in a long time was GONE GIRL, and still flashing to the murder scene. But I distinguish between terror and violence: the scene in M of the child’s balloon flying away, or of Nicholson at his typewriter in THE SHINING, terrified and entranced me. Re cringemaking comedies, a second should out for THE TROUBLE WITH MARY. For guys the moment when Ben Stiller gets his junk caught in the zipper is unforgettable….and terrifying.

JG

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TheSophist 11.20.14 at 3:31 pm

This thread brought to mind the exact same scene in There’s Something About Mary that John Garrett references above. Part of the discomfort for me is (as others have said) very definitely that I could imagine something similar happening to me.

Also mentioned a couple of times upthread is the lack of emotional discomfort associated with watching the world get destroyed. Maybe Stalin’s one death = tragedy, 1,000,000 deaths = statistic is apropos here.

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Friend and Retaliation 11.20.14 at 3:33 pm

Maybe part of the reason it’s easier to suspend disbelief while watching actors get shot than it is when watching them embarrass themselves is that we know that the actors getting shot are in no way *actually* getting shot, whereas when David Brent does the horribly cringe-inducing arm-waving dance (in an episode of the British “Office”), the real person Ricky Gervais really is *actually* doing that embarrassing dance in front of all those other peoople.

David Brent/Ricky Gervais humiliating himself:

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Dingbat 11.20.14 at 4:42 pm

I’ve read Aristotle, and talked about Shakespeare with David Bevington, but still the single best theory of comedy I know comes from Langston Hughes (I’ve probably made this pointer here before; apologies), who talks about giving poetry readings in the Jim Crow South, to poor, uneducated, Black audiences in public libraries and schools. He says that he’d always start with a funny poem because you have to make an audience laugh if you want to make them cry later.

Comedy opens us up, starts us feeling things—interrupts our defense mechanisms, if you will!—in a way that suspense, fear, even unmitigated beauty don’t.

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jake the antisoshul soshulist 11.20.14 at 5:17 pm

My family has long mocked me for my reaction to “the comedy of embarrassment”.
Take for example, The Family Man. I found that to be the most excruciating film experience I ever had.
I am glad that other people have the same reaction, if not as severe.
As far as what Jud Apatow or the Farrelly brothers produce, I am not sure I would dignify that by calling it comedy.
But isn’t definition always the problem.
For example, what falls into the broad category, “Horror”? Do we include classic psychological thrillers like the original Cat People? Torture porn like Saw, supernatural horror like Paranormal Activity, teen slasher like Friday The Thirteenth?
Is Alien horror or science fiction or both?

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TM 11.20.14 at 6:16 pm

JH 40: I don’t remember Seinfeld ever evoking some strong emotional response. Is this a common perception?

Tony 47, you are referring to disgust at what comes out of the nose (and such). This is indeed a strong, disproportional gut reaction shared by many people (I react similarly to blood and that’s one reason for not watching horror movies). It’s an interesting phenomenon but is this what the thread is about? I still don’t think Holbo has made himself very clear. Probably better to leave it at that.

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Teachable Mo' 11.20.14 at 6:19 pm

No viewing/reading event has ever been more painful for me than seeing “Jude” with Christopher Eccleston. The depth of the tragedy and my expectation I had been watching a typical denatured TV “drama” made the climax seem like a personal betrayal.

****

As for Something About Mary’s comic brilliance the peak for me has to be the binoculars or Matt Dillon’s teeth.

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MPAVictoria 11.20.14 at 6:19 pm

“Is Alien horror or science fiction or both?”

I would say both. That and John Carpenter’s The Thing are my two favorite horror movies.

/Go watch them if you haven’t!

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Teachable Mo' 11.20.14 at 6:24 pm

re: 70 “favorite horror movies”

Spoorloos

Nothing else is even close.

/Genuine horror.

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LFC 11.20.14 at 6:26 pm

Is Alien horror or science fiction or both?

I would say both, though I suppose SF may be the more standard designation for it. Outer-space stuff is arguably its own subgenre, I suppose…

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MPAVictoria 11.20.14 at 6:30 pm

“Spoorloos

Nothing else is even close.

/Genuine horror.”

Jesus Christ man! I just read the wiki on that film. No way I would ever be able to make it through that movie. I like my horror unrealistic.

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Doug K 11.20.14 at 6:39 pm

bad jim, “I do laugh at action films; the absurd choreography of events comes straight out of farce. ”
that’s an excellent point, vide Fast&Furious for example. I was giggling all the way through the trailer.

Like many others here I detest sitcoms/cringe comedy. Violent horror or war movies are far more painful to me, though: not sure if this is because I am a timid shrinking violet, or because of personal experiences with violence: quite possibly both. Tragedy is something other than violent horror I think – can watch tragedy and find some kind of reward in the performance, even if only relief that it isn’t real blood.

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Shatterface 11.20.14 at 6:41 pm

Violence and gore don’t bother me; ghost stories do.

And it’s sad ghosts rather than malicious ones that really chill me to the bone.

The sound of weeping in the night.

Fuck that – I’d take on an army of zombies rather than stay in a house with sobbing coming from the nursery.

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J Thomas 11.20.14 at 6:42 pm

I cringed at the MASH movie.

There was a lot of funny stuff. There were all these funny people trying to cope in funny ways. They were all libertines.

And then there were two shy prudes, an MD and a beautiful nurse, and neither of them got along with the crowd. They were starting to shyly reach out to each other. And then all these funny likeable sympathetic people tried to destroy them. No sympathy for them whatsoever. It was supposed to be funny.

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MPAVictoria 11.20.14 at 6:51 pm

Shorter J. Thomas: “I hate Ralph Macchio! I hate him, hate him, hate him! He is not the Karate Kid! The Karate Kid was William Zabka, star pupil of the Cobra Kai Dojo, who this monster defeated with a cheap, illegal head-kick in the most tragically haunting film ending of all time.”

/I realize that this joke is totally impenetrable to anyone who is not a How I Met Your Mother Fan.
//My apologies
///http://how-i-met-your-mother.wikia.com/wiki/The_Bro_Mitzvah

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MPAVictoria 11.20.14 at 6:53 pm

“Fuck that – I’d take on an army of zombies rather than stay in a house with sobbing coming from the nursery.”

100% right, 0% wrong!

Additional question, why are creepy little kids so scary? Is it because we expect them to be cute and friendly so when they are evil it is playing with our expectations?

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Shatterface 11.20.14 at 6:54 pm

MASH – the movie – hasn’t aged well.

It might have been irreverent and taboo busting at the time but now it just comes across as misogynistic and homophobic.

The TV series is far superior to the film or book.

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MPAVictoria 11.20.14 at 6:58 pm

“The TV series is far superior to the film or book.”

It remains to this day one of my favourite TV shows. Hawkeye helped form my idea about what a liberal humanist looks like.

/Sadly the sexual politics of the show haven’t aged well at all but I cop to still watching and enjoying the show in general.

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Shatterface 11.20.14 at 6:58 pm

Additional question, why are creepy little kids so scary? Is it because we expect them to be cute and friendly so when they are evil it is playing with our expectations?

Twins are scarier. In movies, not in real life.

Scariest thing I ever saw I didn’t actually ‘see ‘.

There’s a scene in Robert Wise’s The Haunting when the camera tracs slowly towards a wall behind which you can hear an argument although the words are incomprehensible. The pattern on the wallpaper looks like a face.

The original novel by Shirley Jackson is awesome too .

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Donald A. Coffin 11.20.14 at 7:03 pm

Just before reading this post, I learned of the death of Mike Nichols, and read the NYT obit. What I was most reminded of, in thinking about his work with Elaine May, is that they played as comedy, but, below the surface, there was a feeling of sheer terror. Much the same can be said about movies like the Graduate–which is, in parts, amazingly funny, but underneath, not so much; the same can be said for Catch-22 (as well as for the book itself), Carnal Knowledge, and on and on.

Part of that, I think, is that we–or, at any rate, a lot of us–use humor as a means of dealing with the tragedy of the world (which is trite, I know). (Oddly, I think Nietzsche knew this as well as any of the philosophers I’ve read much of.)

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Jim Buck 11.20.14 at 7:25 pm

you have to make an audience laugh if you want to make them cry later

Perhaps that’s why King Lear is so much fun. At the beginning, Lear is demanding obsequies from his daughters–though he is no nowhere near dead, yet. How embarrassing for everyone is that? And are not Goneril and Regan a most hilarious pair of wicked sisters? And is not the Fool, in this play, genuinely funny for a change. And hath not the fool much piss to taketh out of his master, Lear? What about Lear turning up at Goneril’s castle with a hundred knights expecting to be fed and bedded? And then running to cry royally at Regan’s—only to get the bum’s rush from her? And is not Edmund a cap full of laughs? The typos of Blackadder’s paler impress? And it goes on and on..

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clew 11.20.14 at 8:24 pm

I got hung up on why a man at a linen-tablecloth wedding isn’t wearing dark wool, which absorbs bloodstains pretty well. The wedding party has been put into white linen suits? The building is white plaster, they’re being fed blancmange and steamed chicken and angel food cake, and then there’s a swelling drop of blood…

Make this one drop of blood from the bride or a virginal bridesmaid and it isn’t just comedy any more. Or if the man isn’t himself white. (Or invisible.)

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js. 11.20.14 at 8:26 pm

@71:

The Vanishing is amazing (the original, obviously), but do people really find it scary? This is a genuine question–I haven’t seen it in a long time, and I remember really liking it… And I was going to say I don’t remember finding it scary, but now I’m recalling a couple of seriously unsettling scenes. (Hm, maybe I should watch that again.)

Getting somewhat more back on topic: I’m inclined to agree with Phil @48, and to add that tragedy (broadly defined) can be deeply affecting, though of course not in the squirm-inducing way. A couple of random data points from my own life:

I have sometimes not been able to think totally straight for a day or more after finishing a Faulkner novel. And I didn’t react this way, but I know someone who was down for a few days after reading Gatsby (I know, it does seem a bit extreme). And with film, if you think less Suspiria and more Tokyo Story or Rules of the Game,I don’t know, at least in my life those have tended to be pretty affecting experiences. La Règle du jeu is interesting in this context because it has lots of comedy, and I think a lot of that comedy is good, but it’s not squirm inducing, whereas the ending is devastating, like really actually sad-making. (Tho there is something almost sit-com-y about the lead-up to the tragedy, since in a sense, it’s just a series of small misunderstandings and failed communications.)

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Jim Buck 11.20.14 at 9:04 pm

@9 squirming in our seats

Evopsy threads its ugly rear: May not the squirming in our seats be the physical anticipation of primitive social correction, as the latter radiates down a primate hierarchy which is temporary destabilised? Earlier in the year, I attended a wedding service which was marred by the bride suffering a nose-bleed as she took her vows. To we adults the blood streaming down the white dress was entirely tragic. However, some small kids were squealing in delight, others were crying in terror; some older kids were obviously stifling laughter. The latter had learnt the social rules, I think.

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LFC 11.20.14 at 9:27 pm

Jim Buck @83
Speaking of Shakespeare and the mixing of light and dark moments: Henry IV Pts 1 and 2. The first part is one of my favorite plays, though I can’t say I’ve ever seen a fully satisfying performance of it (and I’ve seen more than one over the years).

The Orson Welles movie version, Chimes at Midnight, which I saw not all that long ago (somewhat by accident; long story) gave me a headache. I was sitting too close and the soundtrack was too loud, but I think it prob would have given me a headache anyway. The battle scene is absurdly long and overchoreographed, with pointlessly long shots of horses pawing the mud while bugles blow in the background. A fairly good performance by some of the cast members; John Gielgud is in it; Welles himself as Falstaff is a bit uneven perhaps, but not bad as I recall. Then, as if everyone didn’t have a headache already, there was a longish post-film (with interviews) about the movie’s complicated production history.

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LFC 11.20.14 at 9:34 pm

Shatterface:
Twins are scarier. In movies, not in real life.

As I’ve had occasion to remark elsewhere (though not for a while), the twins movie that Cronenberg made (with Jeremy Irons) is quite possibly the worst movie I have ever seen.

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CaptFamous 11.20.14 at 9:46 pm

As I see it, “awkwardness” in a comedic setting tends to come from a character in a familiar social setting taking an unusual and immoral/amoral/poorly thought out course of action in order to avoid some everyday-type consequences, thus leading them into an even more high-stakes and embarrassing situation that is now entirely their own fault (for example, every single George Costanza plot from Seinfeld).

I can see why it’s supposed to be funny (familiar/relatable setup > twist > unexpected but in retrospect somewhat logical result), but I never really find it that funny because 1. it’s used so commonly that the end is never that surprising 2. I hate the idea of risking larger problems to avoid short-term, relatively minor consequences, thus these jokes are an affront to my personal sensibilities and 3. the combination of the two just makes me angry, as I have a hard time believing that Constanza didn’t see all of this coming.

As for watching horror movies, maybe it’s the endorphin rush?

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The Temporary Name 11.20.14 at 10:50 pm

On the other hand, I can imagine a comedy in which someone accidentally pricks his finger at a dinner party with all this white linen and there is an absurd dilemma concerning how he is going to dispose of one innocent drop of blood and somehow, stupidly, he makes the wrong decision and suddenly the whole room is focused, disapprovingly, on the now apparently huge smear he’s made on an otherwise pristine white space and it’s just excruciating to watch.

This stuff picks on embarrassment and rationalizations that are very familiar, though my life is fortunately not as catastrophic, selfish and boneheaded. But maybe it could be. There’s a huge amount of squirming in figuring out where your own line is regarding what you think propriety and pride demand. Fawlty Towers is usually nearly flawless and very funny as a dramatic construct, but I have to get up and move around or even leave the room sometimes when Basil does something idiotic to avoid confronting a problem that could have been settled in an instant. In those squirms I must be identifying with the bad person, seeing selfishness or crudity it might be fun to get away with, and getting rightfully crushed. Should this awful part of me be excised?

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floopmeister 11.20.14 at 11:36 pm

Could it be that the death of the world is less affecting because, as Stalin noted, “one death is a tragedy but a million deaths is a statistic?”

Not that either is necessarily funny, of course…

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floopmeister 11.20.14 at 11:49 pm

Some horror scenes are scarier for knowing that they’re real. The roo hunting scene from Wake in Fight – truly horrifying:

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ben w 11.21.14 at 12:07 am

Kotsko assuredly does not answer this.

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Gordon 11.21.14 at 1:36 am

My tuppenceworth. Aristotle does not say that the reason people go to tragedies is to have ‘catharsis’. That would be like saying that the reason people go to funerals is to weep. (Actually at the end of the Politics he kind of does – he portrays catharsis is a kind of emotional release that beings less rational than philosophers find helpful – rather like some 70s liberals claimed porn was.) In the Poetics (if I recall) he says a bunch of different things but is mainly concerned with the fact that certain kinds of stories about certain kinds of good people, and what befalls them, give rise to different emotions in tension with one another: eleios and phobos/pity and fear/Jammer und Erschütterung, the experiencing of which has certain psychological, quasi-medical, and moral effects. It is not obvious he is just speaking about spectators. He might mean the actors. (The line between the two kinds of participants was anyway much less sharp for the citizens of the polis than for current cinema/theatre goers or tv viewers.) Possibly he also meant the characters the actors portray. (Is not Oedipus cleansed/purged/transfigured/morally uplifted by the awful events.) But I think he is implying that good tragic dramas tend to elicit such a response and, so that the fact that a tragedy does that is an indicator of its success. Anyway seeing people get killed or splattered is not what he had in mind. And that you (and maybe others more generally) are less squeamish or bothered about that, than you are embarrassed by watching people make fools of themselves is not something Aristotle can help us understand.

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Theophylact 11.21.14 at 1:39 am

Edmund Kean’s last words are said (without any credible attribution) to have been, “Dying is easy; comedy is hard.”

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ZM 11.21.14 at 8:16 am

I feel like this thread has been sorely neglected.

Main Street Muse,
“Good comedy makes me laugh. The opening of Pride & Prejudice had me laugh out loud, but I was older when I read it. ”

I wouldn’t think that Jane Austen novels were cringe inducing comedy though? The more overly comic characters in P&P like Mrs Bennett or maybe more so Mr Collins are such caricatures that I find it hard to think of readers cringing too much.

Northanger Abbey could answer the OPs question about why people can enjoy (some degree of) horror, as the heroine is addicted to Gothic novels. Gothic novels are rather an impediment to the romance.

I picked it up to look for an appropriate passage and soon had tears of laughter in my eyes. This exchange about gothic novels is not quite as funny as the preceding and following exchanges on the motives of history writers, or on the appropriate use of the word ‘nice’, but I suppose nonetheless it is more on topic to the OP.

(Catherine:)”But you never read novels, I dare say?”
(Henry:) “Why not?”
“Because they are not clever enough for you — gentlemen read better books.”
“The person, be it gentleman or lady, who has not the pleasure in a good novel, must be intolerably stupid. I have read all Mrs Radcliffe’s works, and most of them with great pleasure. The Mysteries of Udolpho, when I had once begun it, I could not lay down again; I remember finishing it in two days — my hair standing on end the whole time.”
“Yes,” added Miss Tinley (henry’s sister), “and I remember that you undertook to read it aloud to me, and that when I was called away for only five minutes to answer a note, instead of waiting for me, you took the volume into the Hermitage Walk, and I was obliged to stay till you had finished it.”
“Thank you, Eleanor — a most honourable testimony. You see, Miss Morland, the injustice of your suspicions. Here was I, in my eagerness to get on, refusing to wait only five minutes for my sister, breaking the promise I had made of reading it aloud, and keeping her in suspense at a most interesting part, by running away with the volume, which, you are to observe, was her own, particularly her own. I am proud when I reflect on it, and I think it must establish me in your good opinion.”

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Teachable Mo' 11.21.14 at 3:20 pm

“The Vanishing is amazing (the original, obviously), but do people really find it scary?”

I don’t think so. It’s one Edgar Allen Poe moment could have even been omitted. But it is s horror movie. Raymond’s a perfect little Eichmann. And he not only prospers, he’s loved and admired. It’s horror beyond Grand Guignol.

The re-make is so inferior that it seems to me to be a calculated insult.

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Bruce Baugh 11.21.14 at 3:23 pm

Some years ago I encountered a theory about horror – maybe from Mira Grant – that makes more sense than anything else I’ve heard on the subject.

In real life, when awful things are happening, we still have to keep doing things. We are called upon to make decisions, or to be prepared to make decisions coming up, some on a predictable schedule but some not. We have few moments to ever just deal with our emotions. Even when the terrible thing is over, there’s the aftermath, the dread of further terrible things to come, and so on.

With horror fiction (in any non-interactive medium; computer games and roleplaying games and such are a somewhat special case, more complicated and not addressed in the margins of this post), we are not called upon to make decisions. That means we have time to actually engage in a much less distracted/distracting way with our emotions. The doing part is all being handled by the characters and those responsible for delivering them to us; we observe, and react, and that’s all. And that freedom from action makes it a lot easier to actually get any kind of catharsis, or any other completed emotional experience, going.

I think this is an element in other kinds of fiction as well, it’s just particularly a deal with horror.

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Shatterface 11.21.14 at 6:03 pm

floofmeister: Some horror scenes are scarier for knowing that they’re real. The roo hunting scene from Wake in Fight – truly horrifying

‘Ave a drink, mate!

Even hospitality can be oppressive.

Wake in Flight is brilliant. Anyone who hasn’t seen it should grab the recently restored Blu-Ray.

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js. 11.21.14 at 7:48 pm

it is s horror movie. Raymond’s a perfect little Eichmann

Ah, I see what you mean.

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Glenn Condell 11.23.14 at 3:36 am

What is the thing we fear most? I think it is embarrassment, social shame, to think of yourself as an object of ridicule or contempt. What we think others think of us is I believe a far more powerful motivator than any species of fear that can arise in the context of tragedy.

Unlike tragedy, comedy involves taking this primary fear head-on, in performance, at the mercy of the wisdom or the madness of the crowd, a tightrope with abysses either side. When it works there’s nothing better, for performer and audience, but when it fails there is nothing worse. We in the audience are involved, along for the ride, in a way that is foreign to tragedy, in which generally external events power the action and the behaviour of the protagonists.

The protagonists in tragedy have volition alright, and make choices, usually bad – hence tragedy. But those choices are forced by events, or at least the protagonist believes them to be. Comedy is a choice, and a huge risk in terms of social approval. We can and do imagine ourselves in this position, which implicitly invokes great admiration for those with the stones to get up and stand up.

I could not count the number of times over the years I have felt a powerful urge to change the channel when a live comedian begins to die on stage, chat show, etc. The excruciation factor is unique to comedy, I think because of this intimate connection we feel, but also because our love of comedy points more accurately to what we all want out of life – happiness and joy. It is hard to see how either of these can be attained without laughter, so anyone who can create such a gift sui generis is something special. Very often the effort involved ends up providing more tragedy than comedy.

Tragedy points to death, comedy to life. We view tragedy with fortitude and resignation, knowing that in the end we cannot avoid it, but anticipate laughter with keen avidity, searching for it like water in the desert. When it turns out to be a mirage, the loss is more painful than the desert heat, which we expect and have factored into our calculations. Hope is dashed when comedy dies, but as tragedy is devoid of hope, that prime disappointment can’t arise. Our reactions to tragedy might include items not normally a by-product of comedy such as stoic, clear-eyed realism.

Both are essential, but I know which I prefer!

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John Holbo 11.23.14 at 4:02 am

“What is the thing we fear most? I think it is embarrassment, social shame, to think of yourself as an object of ridicule or contempt.”

This is a good point. That old joke about how people’s greatest fear is public speaking and their second greatest is death. Ergo, sit-coms in which you are giving a terrible best-man speech at a wedding are more harrowing than murder. Case in point: the only really unwatchably fearful sequence in the recent Cumberbatch “Sherlock” series is him trying to give a best-man speech, and Sherlocking up.

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John Holbo 11.23.14 at 4:05 am

Notice I just mis-wrote ‘you are giving’, obviously because identification with the protagonist makes you feel that way. You are the one enduring the embarrassment the character is suffering. Since embarrassment is a function of social knowledge, and you have as much of that as the character, about the character, embarrassment hurts more than a fictional knife-in-the-guts, which you really can’t feel if it isn’t actually, you know, in your guts.

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Pat 11.23.14 at 5:15 am

Well, C = T + time. Why is it more painful? Because it takes longer.

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ZM 11.23.14 at 7:01 am

“Notice I just mis-wrote ‘you are giving’, obviously because identification with the protagonist makes you feel that way. You are the one enduring the embarrassment the character is suffering. ”

If we are still talking about television or movies it is somewhat different though because there is not just the character and the other people like in real life. For instance, once going camping, I myself tripped and somehow somersaulted down the hill — as I was not at all hurt, and although I was somewhat embarrassed at being so klutzy in front of everybody, it was very surprising and quite funny and I didn’t so much mind laughing about it and telling it as a comical story.

But it is a bit different in television or movies because in the first place it is scripted and then you also have the director deciding things and the actors too and then all the technical things like taking different shots and cutting and editing (when I was very young it was a great disappointment to me to find that films were not made just like plays and scenes were filmed all in one long take)

So a comedy is a bit different than something comic.

And in comedy you have some comedies that are more kind hearted in tone, and some that are cruel and mocking in tone, and you have absurdism which is not wholly comic though having parts that are comic, and farce, and tap-dancing comedies and so forth. Probably you could decide on any of these forms to have an episode featuring a klutzy girl somersaulting down a hill. So the work’s content and responses to the work must be more to do with the form than the comic episode itself I would think, or else why would there be so many ways in which to tell things?

Probably there is some sort of more proper classificatory schema for the different types than the one I sketched. But then you would also have the different authors and so on within or betwixt the different classifications.

It does make me wonder about that book of screenwriting directives in the other OP – it seems rather dull that people follow these conventions all the time. But I suppose it is explicatory of a point that somehow processes of cultural sanction and caution influence which forms are dominant, rather than necessarily being entirely autonomous authorial decisions.

Horace makes this point even back when he was writing, linking changes in literary forms to social and political changes – earlier the simple and delicate flute gave the note to the chorus and accompanied it “where an audience small enough to be counted came together – simple, thrifty folk, modest and virtuous in their ways. But when a conquering race began to extend its territories , and cities grew in size… a greater freedom was allowed in the choice both of rhythms and melodies..”

Horace is quite strict in his literary criticism, it is quite lucky comment threads were not invented then, as I am sure he would have been very strict about how comment thread writing should be done too, and I fear much would meet with his censure and disapproval.

He seems to think subject rather than form distinguishes comedy from tragedy, as iambic writing is suitable for both since it drowns out the audience chatter so well, and both elevated and prosaic wording can also be used for both.

He says the core thing is not beauty but “charm” – but I am not sure this word charm is the right translation since how he expresses his sentiment is “Just as smiling faces are turned on those who smile, so is sympathy shown with those who weep. If you want to move me to tears, you must first feel grief yourself; then, Telephus and Peleus, your misfortunes will grieve me too, whereas if your speeches are out of harmony with your feelings, I shall either fall asleep or burst out laughing… [see, as I said, he is very strict indeed in his literary criticism] For nature has so formed us that we first feel inwardly any change in our fortunes; it is she that cheers us or rouses us to anger, she that torments us and bows us to the ground with a heavy burden of sorrow, and it is only afterwards that she expresses these feelings in us by means of the tongue”

Horace complains a good deal and then leaves off to say “What an ass am I to purge the bile out of my system as the season of Spring comes along”

I am sorry if any economists are reading — but I suppose if I am noting Horace’s strict literary criticism, then I will pass on that Horace also is very strict in his criticism of nation’s economics and blames the Roman enthusiasm for commerce as a corrosive influence on Roman writing as youngsters learn incessantly how to add and subtract and divide and multiply money, and how then can they hope to write a poem worth rubbing with cedar oil and storing in a cypress trunk?

I forgot to mention another comedy that was funny this year, it was the second season, non-Australians might not have heard of it, I missed some of the episodes but likely it will be on again. It is quite awkward I suppose.

http://youtu.be/PyMg-9ckXhI

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philosofatty 11.24.14 at 1:44 am

Different puzzles with different premises. One is, why does the thing that would feel worse in fact not feel worse in fiction? Another is, why does the thing that would be worse in fact, not feel worse in fiction (is this really a puzzle?)? And then there is the parlaying of one or the other into the genre framework. But I’m not convinced there’s a thing here that isn’t just lining up emotionally punchy things against hacky things. But, to the extent that there is a genre phenomenon, I would also suggest that tragic feels operate on a different timeline than either comic feels or acute discomfort.

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AB 11.24.14 at 6:29 pm

“Why do good people like to watch bad things happening to good people, so long as it’s fictional?”

Is the “fictional” proviso warranted? Good people “enjoy” misery memoirs and holocaust documentaries. Pain is quite compelling.

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LeeAnn 11.26.14 at 2:59 am

(I’m late to this party, but nevertheless –)

Regarding tragedy as “fun” – obviously “fun” isn’t’ the right word, but it’s not totally the wrong word either. Most of us don’t go to the theater (or the movies, whatever) for work, or because someone is holding a gun to our heads. This post really made me think of an experience we had about 10 years ago seeing the amazing Fiona Shaw in the title role in Medea. It was so intense that there was a moment when I remember thinking to myself, “Oh my god, oh my god, I’ve got to get out of here, I can’t watch!” and feeling an impulse to literally jump up and run out of the theatre. Of course, I didn’t. After the play finished, I swear the whole audience walked out of the theater in a kind of dazed silence, unlike anything I’ve ever experienced in a public performance. Naturally, we told everyone we knew to try and see it (I guess we wanted to share the “fun”?). Pete and I agreed that we had never quite grasped what the whole katharsis thing was about before seeing that play.

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Meredith 11.26.14 at 6:03 am

I’m not much into genres except as occasions of performance (actually, I’d prefer “performing”). The comments here have been wonderful. Just saying, as I maneuver betwixt Aeschylus teaching and pie-crust making (with cranberry-sauce making thrown in — Aristophanes would appreciate! but then, so would Clytemnestra as she lords it over Cassandra), hope all here who so observe, may you have a good Thanksgiving. Thanks….

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