Exit, voice, loyalty

by Maria on April 19, 2005

So, let’s assume for a moment that you had a real personal stake in who became next pope and are beyond horrified at the ‘election’ of Ratzinger. Let’s also assume you go to Mass on a fairly regular basis (though maybe you haven’t been to confession since you were a teenager…), and know that from now on, you’ll be asked every week to pray for his holiness, Pope Palpatine, sorry, Benedixt XVI. And that’s the easy bit.

I’ll take it that you know there is no way for a mere lay person, and a woman at that, to have any real voice in the doctrinal decisions of the church. And also that loyalty can only mean the lie of silent apostasy. Is exit the only option?

{ 99 comments }

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asg 04.19.05 at 3:18 pm

Why the scare quotes around “election”?

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Nat Whilk 04.19.05 at 3:20 pm

Can one be a practicing Catholic and not go to confession annually?

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David Moles 04.19.05 at 3:27 pm

How is this different from the state of affairs under John Paul II? Doctrinally speaking, I mean?

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Anderson 04.19.05 at 3:29 pm

As a non-Catholic, indeed a Lutheran, I nevertheless opine:

Surely one can be a Roman Catholic without accepting ultramontanism. The exact relation of the popes to councils and to the community of believers has been vigorously debated within that church for centuries, and will continue to be long after Benedict XVI is laid to rest.

Besides the obvious point that you don’t want to abandon the church to the Ratzingentia. The way to change the church is to work from within. Look what the Reformation did: froze the church in amber for centuries.

So, from my comfortable spot on the sidelines, I say stick with your church and work to change it. One layperson can’t do much, but you are far from alone in your views.

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Doctor Slack 04.19.05 at 3:29 pm

Is exit the only option?

This rather depends on what Benedict XVI’s papacy turns out to be like. If he lives up to expectations and exacerbates division in the Church over the major issues facing it — from sexual abuse to contraception to the role of women to interfaith dialogue — I could understand people deciding to leave the church who had endured “silent apostasy” during JPII’s reign. The stakes are high enough that, were I a Catholic, I’d find it warranted. (And I say this in full understanding that leaving one’s church isn’t a step taken lightly.)

OTOH, it’s possible that Benedict will prove a more astute politician than some give him credit for. Time will tell.

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Maria 04.19.05 at 3:37 pm

Asg – on account of the closed and unrepresenting nature of the ‘electorate’.

Nat, yes I believe so. I don’t think there’s an absolute requirement to go to confession regularly and no one’s ever told me otherwise. Catholics can deprive themselves of the joy of various sacraments, but I don’t think that’s a sin.

David – I suppose the point is that it’s not any different and now probably won’t ever be, at least in my lifetime.

Here’s hoping, Dr. Slack.

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Chris 04.19.05 at 3:39 pm

Exactly which cardinal were you hoping would be elected? None of them would change the Church’s position on homosexuality.

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Thomas 04.19.05 at 3:39 pm

Isn’t the decision made already? I mean, if someone rejects the doctrines of her church, hasn’t she left it already?

It sounds more like a question of recognition, not of movement.

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taylor 04.19.05 at 3:42 pm

Why should Benedict care about being an “astute polician”? His job is to remind the world of God’s truth. If God says homosexuality is bad, or the earth is flat, so be it. Tell it like it is, Benedict! And if you don’t believe that the earth is flat, don’t be a member of the Flat Earth Society. The idea that the Pope should pander to intellectual and social fashions is ridiculous, is it not?

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Scott Martens 04.19.05 at 3:43 pm

I don’t know. I didn’t grow up Catholic, and one of the great virtues of Protestantism is that if you don’t like what your church is preaching, you can always find another one.

But let me pose the question that made me exit anyway: When the sacred texts of your church and its long lasting traditions are “reinterpreted” in a manner completely incompatible with the way they have always been interpreted in the past, and the people who do the reinterpreting tell you not that the new interpretations follow from their pre-existing beliefs but that they are merely trying to find the “correct” interpretation, is it ever possible to take your church seriously? Is it possible to think that it stands for anything larger than the sense of right and wrong you already have quite independently of the church? And when you can tolerate neither the old, oppressive, stultifying interpretations or the intellectual hubris and damn foolishness of thinking that this generation of theologians has finally fallen on the truth that was so invisible to their predecessors, is there any choice but cynicism and exit?

I never found a way to both hold to a belief in an enduring tradition and simultaneously believe that the actual contents of that tradition are largely a crock. The new pope seems likely to stand by traditions out of fear that the alternative is for Catholics to face the choice I faced. Opening the door to the notion that on any issue the Church is and always has been wrong opens the door to the idea that it’s always been wrong about everything. Already Vatican II has made a lot of people question the Church’s authority, even though it was a pretty minor reform considering the hopes people had for it.

John XXIII is already in many people’s minds the Church’s Khrushev, retreating from absolutism and leading people to question if it’s really a credible institution. By this analogy, John Paul II was perhaps its Brezhnev, and the cardinals would be right to be terrified of appointing a Gorbachev who might preside over the collapse of the whole system.

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DeadHorseBeater 04.19.05 at 3:48 pm

1. Picket before Mass
2. Attend Mass
3. Abstain from monetary support

or
1. Silent Apostasy, infiltrate lay positions
2. Do not otherwise alter behavior

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Chris 04.19.05 at 3:50 pm

Canon 989: “After having attained the age of discretion, each of the faithful is bound by an obligation faithfully to confess serious sins at least once a year.”

Maria — I am kind of amazed that you’ve grown up Catholic, as you say, practicing, and are not aware that confession at least once a year is unambiguously required by the church. (Not to mention that it’s clearly required every time you commit mortal sin — are you so confident that hasn’t happened since you were a teenager?)

I don’t mean to sound rude. I’m just continually amazed how many people are willing to believe the Church’s assertion that Jesus was raised from the dead (surely a minimum belief for a practicing Catholic) and yet happy to ignore its claims about moral matters and its own authority. Both are kind of prima facie crazy; why then accept one without the other?

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Nat Whilk 04.19.05 at 3:52 pm

Maria:

Most of what I know about Roman Catholicism I learned from sitcoms, but Canon 989 seems to require annual confession, unless you don’t have any grave sins, that is.

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P ONeill 04.19.05 at 3:55 pm

Enjoy the smells and bells while waiting for the Church to come to its senses. Notwithstanding all the hooting and hollering about Palpatine over at the church’s new Amen Corner (aka national review online), the fundamental problems afflicting the church will still be there next week — vocations, attendance, observance of teaching all in decline. Time is on your side.

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Daniel 04.19.05 at 4:06 pm

Speaking as an associate of actuaries, I’d suggest that if you were to part company from the Mother Church over this, the likelihood is that there would be a different Pope before you died and went hell is pretty good. I presume that you would have to repent not only have left the church but also having done so in such a calculating manner, but as long as you were sincere then I think it would be square. This does not constitute actuarial or spiritual advice.

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Maria 04.19.05 at 4:15 pm

Oh dear. I suppose I’d better examine my conscience for some grave sins then. I don’t think I’ve done any mortlers though.

As to the difference of practice amongst people who grow up Catholic, I think we (at least Irish Catholics of my acquaintance) probably acquire quite young a healthy skepticism that distinguishes between what’s actually in the new testament (and preferably not in one of Paul’s mad letters), and canon law tacked on later. So, while on a good day I may believe in a risen Christ, etc. but never have I woken up thinking that the pope cannot err when speaking ex cathedra.

The trick with being a Catholic is not holding contradictory thoughts, but kidding yourself that the really crazy ones don’t matter. Clearly, however, they do. Hence this post.

Anyway, it’s bed time in Europe.

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Anita Hendersen 04.19.05 at 4:17 pm

Please, people, I would guess a sizeable portion of regular church-going Catholics don’t go to confession. Me for one, and Maria, and many others.

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Doctor Slack 04.19.05 at 4:39 pm

Why should Benedict care about being an “astute polician”?

One shouldn’t be inclined to doubt the level of political skill it takes for a Pope to forge something resembling a coherent, functioning organization out of the ever-diverse, quarrelling and widely-spread community that is Roman Catholicism. (Popes that lack such skills have been responsible for significant “bad patches” for Catholicism in the past — the period that begat the Protestant Reformation is rather a case in point; it’s lesser known that there was significant dissent within the Church coeval with figures like Martin Luther.) Managing the Church’s image for the wider world is also fundamentally a skill of politicians, not theologians.

As for Scott’s point: the Catholic Church has survived some very large reforms without succumbing to any Soviet-style collapses of credibility, and it’s not a foregone conclusion that the current slate of issues facing it should be generate such a crisis either. Just off the top of my head, a perspicacious theologian could probably argue that God’s plan was not the same for all humanity at all times and places, and justify reforms on that basis, thereby preserving the church’s history without being tied to every tradition ever espoused in its name. (The relatively recent fiction of the “inerrant” Papacy complicates this more than a little, but I suspect could itself be challenged.)

Of course, it could be argued that such reforms will be harder and harder to carry through the more historical baggage accumulates. But I don’t think we can conclude that Catholicism has yet met this fate; women’s rights, widespread contraception and tolerance of homosexuality, for instance, are all very recent trends in modern society and the Church’s lag in adapting to them is an historical eyeblink. (Clerical celibacy would be a tougher nut to crack, since married clergy have featured in epochs of Church history that make the recent sex scandals pale in comparison. But gradually, I don’t see why it shouldn’t be possible to separate correlation from causation there as well.)

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jim 04.19.05 at 4:39 pm

I don’t see you should object to praying for him. “Pray for your enemies. Bless those that persecute you.” (Or something like that. I was raised Anglican, but dropped away years ago.) I assume you continue to believe in the essentials.

The interesting thing about both this thread and the earlier one is the dogmatism that has been voiced: you’re not a Catholic if you don’t . . .. This is what the election of Ratzinger has encouraged and will encourage further. But I suspect any other result from the conclave would have done the same.

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Ray 04.19.05 at 4:41 pm

Given that the electorate was appointed by JP2, if it wasn’t Ratzinger, it would have been someone with identical positions.
I can understand nostalgia for the innocent religiousness of youth, but I can’t see it being strong enough to tie someone to an abhorrent church. What else is there?

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Ophelia Benson 04.19.05 at 4:43 pm

“Please, people, I would guess a sizeable portion of regular church-going Catholics don’t go to confession. Me for one, and Maria, and many others.”

But that’s not in dispute, is it? The issue is whether or not confession is required. The fact that lots of people don’t go doesn’t mean it’s not required.

Similarly, the fact that lots of people mess around with footballs made of pigskin doesn’t alter what’s written in Deuteronomy or wherever the hell it is.

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Doctor Slack 04.19.05 at 5:05 pm

I suspect any other result from the conclave would have done the same.

Most of the candidates were doctrinally conservative — nobody was going to walk out on the balcony declaring the clergy should be imediately opened to women and gays, for instance. But not all of them were conservative in the same degree; Benedict XVI gives people pause not merely because of his conservatism, but because of his reputation as a hardliner.

OTOH there was a lot of room between the candidates on interfaith dialogue issues. Given the current challenges the Church — and society in general — face in that regard, Benedict doesn’t look likely to have been the best man for the times.

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Anita Hendersen 04.19.05 at 5:06 pm

My point was that: I’m surprised people who post here would think that confession is an integral part of being a Catholic as most Americans experience the church (I know Maria isn’t American, but you get my point.) And also that this is irrelevant to her original post.

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Hektor Bim 04.19.05 at 5:14 pm

There is no great impediment to married priests. They existed for a fairly long stretch of the church’s history (founding to approx 600 AD), and even JPII recognized that there was no great doctrinal problem.

Nevertheless, he was admantly against it for other reasons.

One should not lump married clergy in with issues like contraception, women priests, homosexuality, papal infallibility, for which there are much greater doctrinal impediments.

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pedro 04.19.05 at 5:18 pm

I suspect many people just feel like changing denomination from Catholic to something else is like changing ‘ethnicity’. I had a very short-lived love affair with Catholicism when I was about 9 years old, if I remember correctly. Soon afterwards, I inherited my parents’ healthy secularism (so healthy, that they allowed me to go to Church), and I abandoned the Church for good.

In Latin America, Catholics view Protestants as belonging to a different family, all the denominations very close together among themselves, and all of them remarkably distant from Catholicism. Many would be incredibly surprised to see how much more progressive some Protestant denominations are here in the U.S., given the prominence of extremely conservative evangelical missions in Latin America.

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Juke Moran 04.19.05 at 5:25 pm

It is a mortal sin to eat meat on Friday. Because that is the day that Jesus died. That is also the day his body disappeared.
It is a mortal sin to eat anything within the hour before taking communion because that is when you are to receive the body and blood of Jesus. It is a miracle with overtones of what would be, without the presence of the flesh of Christ, pure cannibalism.
None of those rules matter now. Do what you’re told. No more Latin. Do what you’re told to do. By generally overfed men who either know nothing of human reproductive biochemistry or are the worst sort of hypocrites.
A “wait and see” attitude will provide them, and their Masters, with all the time they need – after that it won’t matter what you see, or what you finally decide to do about it.

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Nick Barnes 04.19.05 at 5:25 pm

How did the church get to a position where the major issues facing it are abortion, contraception, homosexuality, women priests, and married priests?
Jesus has *nothing* to say about any of these subjects.

In contrast, he had so much to say about love, about the poor, about selfishness, corruption, and venality, that the powers of the day killed him to try to shut him up. The church has succeeded where they failed.

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John Emerson 04.19.05 at 5:29 pm

I think that the Jews have the right idea. I’ve been calling myself a secular Lutheran for some time. Historically and temperamentally I’m a Lutheran, and that’s fine with me, but I don’t believe that stuff any more.

People grumbled when I claimed that Nietzsche was a fellow-Lutheran, but he was.

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Ben Alpers 04.19.05 at 5:47 pm

I’m a (Jewish) non-Catholic, but I’ve long wondered why some of those who feel they must stay in the Catholic Church, but object to the conservative direction of the last three decades or so don’t drift over to the Eastern Rite Catholic Churches, where at least they ordain married priests. Any insight on this from the Catholics among us?

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Katherine 04.19.05 at 5:58 pm

I love how the arrogant jerks like Thomas come in and tell YOU you’ve left the Church, when not only does the Church proudly count you as a member when it serves their purposes–they also count never-confirmed, never-went-to-confession, heretical-in-every-way-imaginable, 80%-converted-to-Judaism me as Catholic when it serves their purposes.

I was baptized, after all, and I’ve neither been excommunicated nor sent them a letter of resignation.

You’re not a member in good standing, but who is these days?

I don’t know what to say. My grandmother followed the sexual teachings but thought refusing to ordain women or married priests was a serious mistake. She was firmly of the “it’s your church too, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise” school. She went to mass 3-4 times a week, did all the sacraments, the whole bit, would insert inclusive language during her readings in defiance of the priest’s orders, but remained a Catholic in very good standing her whole life. But now, based on the whole Schiavo thing & the church’s new position on feeding tubes, it turns out that according the Rome she was at one point an accessory to euthanasia. You can’t win with these people.

Is there a rebellious sort of priest nearby? That’s voting with your feet in a way that’s not going to be confused with not caring–like a protest vote for a candidate with no chance rather than staying at home on election day. But it’s often not an option.

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Doctor Slack 04.19.05 at 6:03 pm

How did the church get to a position where the major issues facing it are abortion, contraception, homosexuality, women priests, and married priests?

Because all but one of those are the major moral issues facing Christians generally, entailing fundamental contradictions between the general moral current of Enlightenment rationalism and the traditional drift of religious orthodoxy. And because difficult as they are, it’s much easier to tackle them than to remind people that the Jesus portrayed in the gospels was basically1 a communist.

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Katherine 04.19.05 at 6:13 pm

As far as why people are bitter about Benedict XVI:

“But the proper reaction to crimes committed against homosexual persons should not be to claim that the homosexual condition is not disordered. When such a claim is made and when homosexual activity is consequently condoned, or when civil legislation is introduced to protect behavior to which no one has any conceivable right, neither the church nor society at large should be surprised when other distorted notions and practices gain ground, and irrational and violent reactions increase.”

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Katherine 04.19.05 at 6:17 pm

“How did the church get to a position where the major issues facing it are abortion, contraception, homosexuality, women priests, and married priests?”

Because if you are a priest, bishop, archbishop, cardinal, or pope, there is no cost at all towards emphasizing those positions. You are cut off from every person who bears the cost. They preserve your power and demand nothing of you in return that the vow of celibacy does not already demand. If they bring you into confrontation with other people, it will be with powerless and despised minorities whom you can threaten with damnation if they do not obey you.

It’s much easier to denounce gay people and those daring to use condoms to fight AIDS, than to risk yourself confronting powerful people whose sins of omission or comission are responsible for the suffering and deaths of innocent people.

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brian 04.19.05 at 6:31 pm

I’m a (Jewish) non-Catholic, but I’ve long wondered why some of those who feel they must stay in the Catholic Church, but object to the conservative direction of the last three decades or so don’t drift over to the Eastern Rite Catholic Churches, where at least they ordain married priests. Any insight on this from the Catholics among us?

There has actually been some movement from Protestanism to Eastern Orthodoxy recently. In the late 1990s, it was fashionable to leave your Protestant church and join the Roman church in the name of tradition and theology. Now the Eastern church is in vogue, for the same reasons, minus the scourge of sex scandals and the office of the Pope. These folks generally claim that the Protestant church (churches, really) have fallen prey to modernism and the Enlightenment.

Truthfully, I think many Christians (Roman or Protestant) don’t completely understand the Eastern church, and therefore assume it stands on shaky ground theologically. The Eastern church also does a pretty good job of staying out of the headlines.

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nick 04.19.05 at 6:38 pm

I am kind of amazed that you’ve grown up Catholic, as you say, practicing, and are not aware that confession at least once a year is unambiguously required by the church

Dear me. Only converts know that sort of guff. That’s why they’re usually so unbearable.

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nick 04.19.05 at 6:42 pm

The trick with being a Catholic is not holding contradictory thoughts, but kidding yourself that the really crazy ones don’t matter.

And that’s shared by many brought up in the post-Vatican II church. In the developed world, at least, there’s a tacit doctrinal truce between the clergy and congregation, given that if the same kind of Ratzinger-style orthodoxy applied to theologians were required of everyday parishioners, St Mary Of Perpetual Succour would become St Mary of Perpetually Empty very quickly.

That’s to say, those brought up Catholic, those who converted, and those who think they know about Catholicism from what Wolf bloody Blitzer tells them form three very different communities of thought here.

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Nat Whilk 04.19.05 at 7:08 pm

Nick wrote: “Dear me. Only converts know that sort of guff.

My understanding (again, as an outsider) is that Catholic children undergo catechetical instruction prior to receiving first communion. The Catholic catechisms I find on the Internet state the obligation of annual confession. Why, then, is it that only converts know about this?

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Katherine 04.19.05 at 7:24 pm

Seriously, how DOES one get off the membership rolls? I was already going to convert within the year & normally I’d wait until it’s official, but after today I’m certain: even if I could stay Christian I could never be Catholic. And suddenly it’s very important to me not to be dishonestly inflating their numbers for a day longer–exit being the only option, it seems like vocal, official exit is the last favor I could do for those who do decide to stay.

But I have no idea how to go about this, or if it’s even possible.

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John Emerson 04.19.05 at 7:39 pm

Nat — based on my family experience, the rules for born Catholics are almost infinitely lax.

Both of my sisters married Catholics, and both were highly annoyed when, in order to convert (which they were both willing to do) they had to learn more about the Catholic Chirch than either of their husbands ever bothered to.

Going outside the bounds of civility, as is my wont, it highly annoys ME to have to care, for political reasons, what the Catholic hieierarchy has ruled about sexual behavior, when the bishopric in Portland here just had to declare bankruptcy in order to stay in operation in the face of multiple sexual-abuse claims.

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nick 04.19.05 at 7:40 pm

My understanding (again, as an outsider) is that Catholic children undergo catechetical instruction prior to receiving first communion.

Er, no. See my last comment. I did, however, get a string of rosary beads and a little book of prayers from my grandma.

First time I saw a catechism was at college, on the nightstand of a friend who was in the process of converting. Big yellow book. As I pointed out, one reason why younger brought-up-Catholics (lapsed or otherwise) look slightly askance at converts is that we never had to learn all that bloody stuff.

This was after twelve years of Catholic schooling; as opposed to my parents, who still know the Latin Mass and Baltimore catechism by heart, having had it beaten into them by nuns with paddles.

(I did, however, look at the old catechism in order to appreciate the nuances of the Myles naGopaleen Catechism of Cliché.)

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robert the red 04.19.05 at 7:41 pm

“I don’t think I’ve done any mortlers though.”

For example, all sexual sins are mortal (masturbation of any kind, sexual activity outside of marriage, sexual activity without the possibility of procreation if the couple is fertile). There is no “parvity of matter” — all sexual sins are equally bad, and there is no gradation, no ‘just a little bad’.

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Matt 04.19.05 at 7:52 pm

Don’t dispare, Maria! Head quickly to fafblog and you’ll see that Ratzinger has been defeated by Giblets! It only looks like Ratzinger becuase Giblets has hollowed out his skin and assumed his form! Now we must hold out hope that the evil form doesn’t take control of Giblets…

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Richard Cownie 04.19.05 at 8:05 pm

>One should not lump married clergy in with issues
>like contraception, women priests, homosexuality,
>papal infallibility, for which there are much
>greater doctrinal impediments.

There are even married Catholic priests right now!
See http://atheism.about.com/od/romancatholicism/a/celibacy.htm

I believe there are quite a few in England –
conservatives who left the Church of England over
the issue of ordaining women, converted to
Catholicism and remained married.

The celibacy of the priesthood is clearly a
liability, if Benedict has any interest in
being a uniter rather than a divider then that
might be the one progressive move he could make.

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nick 04.19.05 at 8:16 pm

Many Eastern Rite churches also allow married priests. As commentators have noted, Rome doesn’t have to look too far east to find a model.

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Uncle Kvetch 04.19.05 at 8:58 pm

Seriously, how DOES one get off the membership rolls?

Wow, Katherine. I’d literally never thought about this before, but your comment gave me a jolt. I was baptized, spent 12 years attending Catholic schools and weekly mass, and left the church at 18. It never occured to me that I could still be considered a “Catholic” by anybody, not even by the Church, and not even in a purely demographic sense, but now I’m starting to wonder.

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Frec Vincy 04.19.05 at 9:19 pm

“Is exit the only option?”

That would be a “yes”….

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Katherine 04.19.05 at 9:29 pm

Oh, you almost certainly are. I remember this from my U.S. Congress class in college–we were comparing the demographics of the Senate & House compared to the U.S. population, and the professor noted in passing that the # of Catholics in the U.S. compared to the number of Protestants is inflated because they count everyone who was ever baptized. I’ve been googling around–apparently you have to contact the diocese or parish where you were baptized and say, look, take me off the list.

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MTC 04.19.05 at 10:26 pm

For the lay Catholic, silent apostasy is a vote of confidence in the Chuch’s ultimate devotion to reason. For every position taken by the existing Church, there a more humane, more reasonable position in the Church of the future. So one is a few centuries ahead…the Church will catch up–but only if those who love reason remain within the Church’s embrace.

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Dan Kervick 04.19.05 at 10:30 pm

Wow, Katherine. I’d literally never thought about this before, but your comment gave me a jolt. I was baptized, spent 12 years attending Catholic schools and weekly mass, and left the church at 18. It never occured to me that I could still be considered a “Catholic” by anybody, not even by the Church, and not even in a purely demographic sense, but now I’m starting to wonder.

You can check out any time you like; but you can never leave.

I quit in my own mind when I was 12, and I suppose I may still be listed on some soggy, official parchment membership roles in the caves of the Vatican. But what of it? I might also still be a member of the Winky Dink Fan Club I joined when I was a little kid. People can create any lists they want and put your name on them, and there is not much you can do about it. Anyway, that’s there busineess. As long as they don’t come asking for money, then what’s the harm?

You could request an excommunication, but they might not grant it. It’s better just to excommunicate the church than to wait for them to excommunicate you.

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Ben Alpers 04.19.05 at 10:49 pm

There has actually been some movement from Protestanism to Eastern Orthodoxy recently.

I know about about that. I was asking about whether there was any intra-Catholic movement from the mainstream of the church to the smaller, Eastern Rite Catholic churches (also known as Uniate churches), like the Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church (the largest of them). These churches are part of the Catholic communion, recognize the Pope as their head, yet maintain Eastern Christian rituals and traditions, including the ordination of married priests.

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Thomas 04.19.05 at 11:08 pm

Katherine, I’m sorry I upset you so, but I can’t begin to understand why, and your post doesn’t help.

To the extent that there’s some question about who is “counted” as a member of the Catholic Church: there’s some discretion granted to the pastor in each parish, to count as he wishes, but most count active Catholics, currently registered with the parish. If you haven’t attended and haven’t contributed for some period of time, you’re likely not counted in any official survey. The social science literature indicates (or did ten years ago anyway) that many more Americans identify themselves as Catholic than register as members of any Catholic Church. The difference at that point in time was estimated to be about 4-6% of the US population. The best evidence, then, is that the “official” Catholic numbers under-count those who call themselves “Catholic”.

In light of that information about the counting of Catholics, is it OK if we recognize that those who don’t share the beliefs of a religion should recognize that they’ve left the religion?

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LHM 04.19.05 at 11:20 pm

Perhaps the best option is to take time for your own self-reflection and try your best to understand the significance of everything.

“Listen carefully, my son, to the Master’s instructions, and attend to them with the ear of your heart. This is advice from a father who loves you; welcome it, and faithfully put it into practice. The labor of obedience will bring you back to him from whom you had drifted through the sloth of disobedience. This message of mine is for all, and armed with the strong and noble weapons of obedience to do battle for the true king, Christ the Lord.”

The Rule of St. Benedict, Prologue, verses 1-3

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Functional 04.19.05 at 11:23 pm

Nick: Only converts know that sort of guff.

In my experience, only cradle Catholics would be proud of being ignoramuses about the faith that they supposedly believe in (let alone constantly appear to be in a state of shock that, yes, the Pope is still Catholic).

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Walt Pohl 04.20.05 at 12:01 am

Many people comenting here have a curiously Protestant view of Catholicism. A Protestant church is its doctrine — to deviate from the doctrine is to leave the church. You can always find another church, or for that matter start your own. The Catholic church is a two-thousand year old tradition. Priests, bishops, cardinals and popes come and go, but the tradition remains. You can disagree on very many points of doctrine, and still be part of the tradition.

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MDP 04.20.05 at 12:47 am

Many people comenting here have a curiously Protestant view of Catholicism. A Protestant church is its doctrine—to deviate from the doctrine is to leave the church.

That’s how this ex-Catholic and his two brothers who are priests understand Catholicism. In what sense is one a “Catholic” if one rejects its dogmas?

I don’t believe what the RCC teaches, so I left. For the life me, I don’t see why people like Maria and Andrew Sullivan, who also reject the RCC’s teachings, feel so attached to a label that no longer describes them except in a trivial sense.

You can disagree on very many points of doctrine, and still be part of the tradition.

What do you mean?

There is no great impediment to married priests. They existed for a fairly long stretch of the church’s history (founding to approx 600 AD), and even JPII recognized that there was no great doctrinal problem.

Right, there is a long history of allowing married men to become priests, but there is no history of allowing priests to marry.

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John Quiggin 04.20.05 at 12:59 am

At least when making claims about aggregate numbers, the Catholic Church counts baptised members. Claimed shares are 22 per cent for the US, 85 per cent for Brazil and 96 per cent for Italy.

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Nick Barnes 04.20.05 at 1:30 am

Doctor Slack, you write “Because all but one of those [abortion, contraception, homosexuality, women priests, married priests] are the major moral issues facing Christians generally, entailing fundamental contradictions between the general moral current of Enlightenment rationalism and the traditional drift of religious orthodoxy.”

The major moral issues facing any Christian are Mark 12:29-31:

1. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.

2. Love your neighbour as yourself.

Hope this doesn’t come across as pompous. In fact I’m a terrible, terrible heretic.

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Katherine 04.20.05 at 1:33 am

“You can check out any time you like; but you can never leave.

I quit in my own mind when I was 12, and I suppose I may still be listed on some soggy, official parchment membership roles in the caves of the Vatican. But what of it? I might also still be a member of the Winky Dink Fan Club I joined when I was a little kid. People can create any lists they want and put your name on them, and there is not much you can do about it. Anyway, that’s there busineess. As long as they don’t come asking for money, then what’s the harm?”

The harm is, I am being used as part of an inchoate mass of “66 million American Catholics” to lend authority to the hierarchy when it’s convenient & I obey, and discarded as “not really Catholic” when I’m not and I won’t.

In my case they’re right–I’m not really Catholic. So why are they claiming me as a member?

If they want to be a tiny mustard seed or cyst, fine, but they will no longer be using ME to bully my friends and betray the principles my Catholic relatives raised me in, even as a tiny little splinter of the rhetorical club that is “66 million American Catholics”.

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Katherine 04.20.05 at 1:34 am

Thomas, that is flatly false.

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Katherine 04.20.05 at 1:36 am

What is the Eastern rite & how does it differ from the Western rite & the Orthodox church?

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dsquared 04.20.05 at 1:44 am

In light of that information about the counting of Catholics, is it OK if we recognize that those who don’t share the beliefs of a religion should recognize that they’ve left the religion?

The last time the Catholic Church took that sort of attitude to matters of doctrinal disagreement was 1517 and I have to say it didn’t turn out very well.

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LHM 04.20.05 at 2:19 am

Thanks Nick Barnes for posting that.

I personally find myself perplexed by the outroar over the election of Pope Benedict XVI.

People need to ask themselves a few simple questions really to have a greater understanding:

Do you believe in God?

Do you believe in the Afterlife?

Do you believe in Heaven and Hell.

If you believe in the afterlife and Heaven in Hell, then how does one go to Heaven?

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bi 04.20.05 at 5:25 am

Yes, how does one go to Heaven?

Does one go to Heaven by obeying every word uttered by the Pope? (Is it part of the Bible, that the Pope is infallible?)

Does one go to Heaven by spreading hate? (Again, which part of the Bible is that?)

Does one go to Heaven by robbing the poor to give to the rich? (Oops, I’m reading the whole Bible I guess…)

These aren’t “simple” questions. If you think they’re “simple”, you’re just deluding yourself.

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Doug 04.20.05 at 5:49 am

Katherine, google up “eastern rite catholics history” for a quick sense of the background.

This is accurate from what I recall of graduate history seminar in Poland-Lithuania. It’s concise, too. (Interesting, too, particularly in light of JP2 is the now nearly secret history of the Polish Reformation. Lotta Anabaptists. Further out in the steppes, as Poland was a lot bigger then, a lot of people who became what we now know as Mennonites.)

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Liadnan 04.20.05 at 5:59 am

The “Eastern Rite” in this context means groups “won back” to communion with Rome from various of the pre-Reformation schisms, and keeping their own liturgies and hierarchy, particularly but not exclusively from the main Orthodox communion (in the Lebanon the Maronites come from attempts to resolve the monophysite/monothelite schism). Most of it traces back to the Council of Florence, a last-ditch attempt to reunify East and West so the West would back Byzantium against the Turks. There are a fair amount (though not statistically significant) of Greek Catholics (with a liturgy largely indistinguishable from the Orthodox) and the like as a result.

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Barry 04.20.05 at 6:02 am

Posted by Doctor Slack:
“One shouldn’t be inclined to doubt the level of political skill it takes for a Pope to forge something resembling a coherent, functioning organization out of the ever-diverse, quarrelling and widely-spread community that is Roman Catholicism.”

As I understand it:

1) Almost all of the cardinals were elevated by JPII.

2) The election of Raztinger was incredibly fast, as these things go.

3) There were very, very good reasons for picking a S. American or African pope, and for picking somebody who hadn’t spent the past couple of decades in the Vatican.

The fact that JPII’s right-hand enforcer was immediately selected suggests to me that JPII’s cardinals are carrying out his will and policies and also that Ratzinger will be able to carry on very well along the same path. He’s been doing this as number 2 for a couple of decades; he knows what he wants to do, and how to do it.

The only problem, as has been pointed out by others, is that Ratzinger isn’t charismatic.

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Scott Martens 04.20.05 at 6:05 am

Reading all this, I’m reminded of a story whose origins I’ve forgotten, about an Irish atheist in Belfast who gets asked if he’s a Catholic or a Protestant. Upon responding that he’s an atheist, he’s asked if he’s a Protestant atheist or a Catholic atheist. I’d give long odds that the majority of CT readers are on a spectrum that runs from vaguely deist through agnostic to atheist, which makes it quite interesting to see how theology gets discussed.

Katherine, the Uniate Churches represent about 2% of Catholics, mostly in Eastern Europe and the Middle East. They use Eastern Orthodox and other traditional non-Roman liturgies but recognise the Bishop of Rome as the head of the Church. They enjoy considerable autonomy, but they are not in any sense liberal churches. Although their priests can be married, it’s strongly discouraged and I think forbidden to bishops. Certainly an ordinary sex life is a rareity among them. As for women in the Church – it’s arguably even less common in the Uniate Churches than mainstream Catholicism. In Canada, you can find one easily enough if you want to know more: look in the phone book for “Ukrainian Catholic” or “Ukrainian Greek Catholic” churches. In Michigan or Australia, look for a Marionite church. Otherwise, I think it’ll be hard to find one in an English-speaking country, except maybe in areas with large Lebanese or Syrian populations. Uniate churches generally have strongly ethno-linguistic characters that limit their capacity or interest in accepting members from outside their communities.

As an apostate Anabaptist, I might recommend the Anglicans for the taste of Catholicism with less of the heavy guilt, although the American branch – the Episcopal Church – always seemed to me to be basically liberal Protestantism with funky collars, so it might not work where you live.

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Steve 04.20.05 at 7:16 am

How amusing to listen to liberal non-Catholics (not you, Maria) whine that the Catholic Church is divided because it doesn’t agree with them. The Catholic Church has problems, but appeasing wealthy Western liberals isn’t the path to solution. Its basically dead in Europe, its thriving in the Third World, the American Church has problems with child abuse claims and shortage of priests, and you all think that the Pope is worried about the opinions of a few thousand ex-hippies living in New York?

On related notes: shouldn’t the Muslims cut down on the praying? Five times a day is a bit much. And Jews-isn’t about time for them to start eating pork? Oh, wait. I’m neither Jewish nor Muslim-its none of my business.

Steve

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Ja 04.20.05 at 7:25 am

I know this is a terrible thing to say, but I honestly have immense trouble understanding anybody religious whatsoever. Especially my family, who are all very religious. It is a bit of a problem to be honest. How do I rediscover my tolerance? (This is only half in jest by the way). Sorry.

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SamChevre 04.20.05 at 7:41 am

Maria,

I would say no, if the question is on praying for Benedict XVI; there is no contradiction whatsoever between praying for someone and disagreeing with them–it might be even more important to pray for those who you disagree with. (“Pray…for kings, and for all those in authority” was written under Nero, after all.)

Now, if the underling issue is the Catholic’s orthodox beliefs about homosexuality, the answer is possibly yes; those are not going to change, no matter who is elected pope. It really would be switching ethnicities (esp given the history) but the Anglican/Episcopal church would certainly be much closer to you in doctrine.

The Catholic Church, and John Paul II in particular, have been far from silent about the issue of oppression under capitalism; maybe the media didn’t play it up, but it was one of his significant concerns and he warned against it frequently.

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Matt McIrvin 04.20.05 at 7:51 am

I’m a liberal non-Catholic, and I fully recognize that the church has no business giving a fig what I think; it’d be pretty strange if it did. But I do feel a great deal of sadness for the liberal Catholics who have been anguishing over this, since it doesn’t seem to be easy for them to leave the church over doctrinal disagreements.

It reminds me of the people trying to decide whether to leave the United States and reject their American citizenship after Bush got reelected. Of course, this is in practical terms much, much harder than leaving a church in a modern Western democracy. But it was inconceivable to me more because this is home, I care about it, and to me, when my home goes ideologically sour my first response is not to pick up and leave. I get the impression that for many Catholics, the church is not just a set of doctrinal attitudes, it’s a kind of home.

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Matt McIrvin 04.20.05 at 7:54 am

it might be even more important to pray for those who you disagree with.

Evangelical Protestants certainly feel that way.

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Functional 04.20.05 at 8:14 am

Many people comenting here have a curiously Protestant view of Catholicism. A Protestant church is its doctrine—to deviate from the doctrine is to leave the church.

That’s true, in a sense. But the “liberal” commenters have an even more Protestant view, in the most literal sense of the word. They think that even while remaining Catholic, they have a right to protest against Catholic teachings, and that when they do so, it is they who are infallible rather than the Pope. Their view of moral authority is incorrigibly Protestant (or, obviously, secular).

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Iron Lungfish 04.20.05 at 8:18 am

Yes, how does one go to Heaven?

My converted-to-Protestantism, formerly-Italian-Catholic father always held that Catholics weren’t “saved,” and were therefore probably going to hell, because they they believed they were justified by works, whereas the true faithful are justified by faith, “lest any man should boast.” So in other words, Catholics and Protestants worship Jesus and believe everything about him that a Protestant does, but because they don’t believe that their faith, by itself, gets them into Heaven, they don’t get into Heaven. Bad luck!

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Nat Whilk 04.20.05 at 8:20 am

Nick wrote: “Er, no. See my last comment. I did, however, get a string of rosary beads and a little book of prayers from my grandma.

Thanks for the clarification. I see that in 1935 Pius XI issued a statement entitled “On Better Care for Catechetical Teaching” that says, among other things, that “Pastors shall not admit to reception of the sacraments of Penance and Confirmation, as prescribed in Canon 1330, children who have not acquired sufficient knowledge of the catechism according to directives of the Decree of the Sacred Congregation of the Sacraments on August 8, 1910”.

Ben: It doesn’t seem to me that the issue of married priests is the deal-breaker for those upset with Pope Benedict and what he represents. Do the Eastern Catholic churches disagree with the assertion that homosexual acts are disordered and never to be approved?

Walt Pohl wrote: “The Catholic church is a two-thousand year old tradition. . . . You can disagree on very many points of doctrine, and still be part of the tradition.

But what is it about that tradition that would make Maria (for example) want to stay? There’s a formal concept of “tradition” in Roman Catholicism, namely, “teaching derived from Christ and the apostles, together with that subsequently communicated to the church by the Holy Spirit, and to be of equal authority with Scripture” (OED). Does Maria believe in that sort of tradition? Or is the “tradition”al appeal of Catholicism to those like her akin to the irrational soft spot the rest of us have in our hearts for, say, the towns in which we grew up? What does the Roman Catholic Church have to offer her that, say, Unitarianism doesn’t?

Nick Barnes wrote: “The major moral issues facing any Christian are Mark 12:29-31: 1. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.

And then in John 14:15 we are instructed that if we love the Lord we should keep his commandments. Does that entail refraining from participation in abortions and homosexual acts? It appears to me that the Roman Catholic Church has consistently said that it does.

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Thomas 04.20.05 at 8:32 am

A couple of people have suggested that I have the facts of counting wrong. My source is “One Nation Under God: Religion in Contemporary American Society” by Barry Kosmin and Seymour Lachman, 1993. See the discussion on pages 298 and 299 of the Crown Trade edition. If you have something as reliable–which wouldn’t ordinarily include, say, your own opinion, or a report in the popular press–please, let’s hear it. Otherwise, concede the point and move on.

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Uncle Kvetch 04.20.05 at 8:40 am

How amusing to listen to liberal non-Catholics (not you, Maria) whine that the Catholic Church is divided because it doesn’t agree with them. The Catholic Church has problems, but appeasing wealthy Western liberals isn’t the path to solution.

Steve, I wish it were that simple. I wish I could say, as an ex-Catholic, that the doings of the Church are now “none of my business.”

Unfortunately, the Church still seems to have a great deal of interest in my business, whether I remain a Catholic or not. When Catholic bishops speak openly in favor of antigay legislation, they’re not minding their own business, now are they? When John Paul II warned that European governments allowing gay marriages and civil unions were under the sway of an “ideology of evil,” was he minding his own business?

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Seth Gordon 04.20.05 at 9:21 am

Maria: perhaps you could console yourself with the proverb that “identifying the Catholic Church solely with the Vatican and the Curia is rather like identifying science fiction fandom with the Worldcon committee.”

Katherine: I have it on good authority that when you convert to Judaism you will automatically become excommunicate. (The person who told me this wanted her priest to do the formal ritual, but he refused.)

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Doctor Slack 04.20.05 at 9:24 am

Barry: The fact that JPII’s right-hand enforcer was immediately selected suggests to me that JPII’s cardinals are carrying out his will and policies and also that Ratzinger will be able to carry on very well along the same path.

Sounds plausible to me. The question is: how sustainable is that path in actual fact, and will Benedict be able to recognize if it isn’t? Contrary to popular imagination and with all due respect to Steve, there are plenty of issues of concern in the West that resonate just as strongly in Third World congregations: women in the church, contraception, outmoded priestly celibacy (which as someone mentioned earlier probably is more doctrinally tractable than some other problems). An ultra-conservative pontiff can divide the all-important Third World congregations in other ways, too: Latin American Catholics remember, often bitterly, that it was Ratzinger who liquidated liberation theology.

Nick, you write: The major moral issues facing any Christian are Mark 12:29-31: 1. . . Hope this doesn’t come across as pompous.

Not at all. Though I think different Christians would pick different verses (problem 1) and interpret them differently (problem 2) depending on context, education and inclination. Which, unfortunately for them, lands your average Christian — be they Catholic, Protestant or Orthodox — in the same muddy moral universe as the rest of us. In practical terms, the major issues that occupy the many branches of Christianity are dictated by the currents in that murk, and unfortunately Mark 12: 29-31 doesn’t provide any easy ways of resolving the problems that result.

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Keith 04.20.05 at 10:16 am

Seriously, how DOES one get off the membership rolls?
— Katherine

You go to mass one last time and when the man with the funny robe says, “Let’s pray for Pope Ratz” you stand up and shout, “Fuck this! I’d rather be Jewish!” and storm down the isle and out the front door.

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Nick Barnes 04.20.05 at 10:26 am

The whole point of Mark 12:29-31 is that it’s Jesus doing the picking.

John 14:15: “If you love me, you will obey what I command”. No recorded command of Jesus concerns abortion (not mentioned in the bible at all), homosexuality (mentioned in passing in the Torah, with some unclear meaning, which *at most* can be interpreted as suggesting that Jews are prohibited from male-male anal sex), women priests, contraception, or married priests. On the other hand, he *did* go on at considerable length about (for instance) the poor and the sick.

As I said earlier, I am a terrible heretic.

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Francis 04.20.05 at 10:50 am

If we wanted to get an accurate count of Catholics, would it be possible to get an accurate count of any of the following:

a. people who have been to Church in the last month;
b. people who have been to Church in the last year;
c. people who have been to confession in the last year;
d. people who have donated money to the church in the last year?

While the thread has been fascinating to this agnostic, no one has really taken up the question of what it “means” to be Catholic.

Personally, I think the american-style cafeteria catholics aren’t, in fact, catholic. They may think they belong to the group, and the head of the group may count them as belonging for purposes of increasing his political power.

But as I understand it, there are certain issues about which dissent IS NOT ALLOWED. Yet on these issues, dissent, especially among american catholics, exists. If you dissent on an issue for which dissent is not allowed, then you’re not really catholic. Perhaps the tradition provides comfort, but it must come at a terrible cost of burying the cognitive inconsistencies.

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Doctor Slack 04.20.05 at 11:14 am

No recorded command of Jesus concerns abortion . . . homosexuality . . . women priests, contraception, or married priests.

However, all those questions are arguably worthy of consideration as major moral questions in and of themselves, explicit commands from Jesus or no, and therefore are presumably worthy of consideration as major moral questions for Christianity.

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Nat Whilk 04.20.05 at 11:19 am

Nick Barnes wrote: “No recorded command of Jesus concerns abortion . . ., homosexuality . . .

I don’t think the Roman Catholic Church has adopted Luther’s principle of sola scriptura, but believes that God has spoken authoritatively outside scripture, as well.

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Greg 04.20.05 at 11:36 am

I’m just wondering whether the Church isn’t being put into a lose-lose situation here. Either it counts lapsed Catholics as Catholics, in which case it’s dishonest, or it doesn’t, in which case it’s intolerant. Just a thought.

I reckon most lapsed Catholics, rather than being ex-Catholics, are simply just sinners. You know, like all the Catholics who haven’t lapsed. Different sins, maybe, but basically the same.

As for those who’ve deliberately turned their backs on the Faith, then, yeah, there’s a good chance they shouldn’t be counted. Catholics are considered excommunicated Latæ Sententiæ if they deliberately choose the reject the doctrines of the Church – and there are mitigating factors, notably ignorance or lack of liberty.

I hope exit isn’t the only option. Loyal opposition from within, maybe.

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nick 04.20.05 at 12:12 pm

Nat: I see that in 1935 Pius XI issued a statement…

Well, that’s very good of you to do all the research, although I do wonder whether Vatican II may have superseded such things. But take it up with my old parish priest, mate: I was only seven at the time.

functional: In my experience, only cradle Catholics would be proud of being ignoramuses about the faith that they supposedly believe in.

Well, since your experience is probably that of sitting in the front row among the other late arrivals, at a safe distance from the rest of us, that’s not surprising.

functional again: They think that even while remaining Catholic, they have a right to protest against Catholic teachings, and that when they do so, it is they who are infallible rather than the Pope.

Oh, that’s utter bollocks. As Cardinal Ratzinger, he wasn’t speaking from an ex cathedra position of infallibility — a word so overused it’s silly — and as Pope, he hasn’t done so yet. The world is fallible; people are fallible.

I think there’s certainly a degree of commonality between cradle Catholics and secular Jews that’s not shared either by converts or those looking in from the outside, waving their copies of canon law. As others have said, doctrine comes and goes, and so do Popes. And personally, I’d say that you don’t ever get away from the Church in your own lifetime, but you can make sure that it doesn’t get your kids. After all, in a curious combination of Humanae Vitae and The Selfish Gene, from the Church’s perspective, an adult Catholic is primarily a means of generating more Catholics.

francis: Perhaps the tradition provides comfort, but it must come at a terrible cost of burying the cognitive inconsistencies.

Cognitive inconsistency? That’s what Catholicism is all about.

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Adam Kotsko 04.20.05 at 12:31 pm

I can attest, as a convert to Catholicism, that converts are obnoxious, especially in the early stages. I have since calmed down, and in fact I now disagree with the church on many matters — perhaps this is my privilege as a straight man, but I care about the liquidation of Latin American liberation theology more than about the inclusion of women in (a corrupt form of) church leadership and about acceptance of homosexuals.

I’m still officially on the roles in my adopted home parish, and I’ll tell you why the church is so hard to leave — because it’s not just a matter of assent to a list of doctrines. It’s about your actual body — the process of participating actively in the liturgy, the “smells and bells,” the music that can still send a chill down your spine when the Gloria comes back on Holy Thursday after having been gone all through Lent, the rosary beads, etc., etc. It’s about being part of an actual, physical process of worship with people all around the world — knowing that you could walk into a church in Germany or Vietnam and still participate in all the most important ways.

More than being a set of doctrines, tradition in the real, lived sense is the set of practices — physical practices — in which Catholics participate, and the reason it hurts dissenting Catholics to think of leaving is because they really do share a lot with all these terribly bigotted people who believe themselves to be running the show. The liturgical life of the church has a rhythm and meaning of its own, though, that does not finally rely on the varied formal pronouncements of popes.

People who don’t understand how one can be Catholic without “believing” some set of doctrines don’t seem to me to know what it means to be Catholic in the most important sense of the word — not thinking you’re Catholic, but actually being Catholic in a way that you can no longer really help.

And I say that as an obnoxious convert who was eager to promote orthodoxy and who tore myself to shreds emotionally because (surprise!) I was unable to break the habit of masturbating when I converted at the age of 18. But I ended up going to a lot of masses, for some stretches every day of the week, and I ended up saying a lot of rosaries, so I feel like I’ve almost made up for the lost time that cradle Catholics have on me. “Just become Episcopalian” isn’t as easy of an answer as it sounds.

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John Emerson 04.20.05 at 12:37 pm

How amusing to listen to liberal non-Catholics (not you, Maria) whine that the Catholic Church is divided because it doesn’t agree with them. The Catholic Church has problems, but appeasing wealthy Western liberals isn’t the path to solution.

The Catholic Church is one of the powers of the earth. So even though I am in no way a Catholic, not even an ex-Catholic, I still care what happens. The way I cared who was in power in the old Soviet Union, even though I was neither a Soviet nor a Communist.

This basically looks bad to me. And I don’t feel at all good, as I have said, about being forced to care about the pronouncements of the leaders of such an extraordinarily peccable and maculate institution.

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Katherine 04.20.05 at 12:41 pm

“I’m just wondering whether the Church isn’t being put into a lose-lose situation here. Either it counts lapsed Catholics as Catholics, in which case it’s dishonest, or it doesn’t, in which case it’s intolerant. Just a thought.”

Well, they actually do BOTH.

The only thing I can conceive of having an effect from within is to be quite polite and open with your priest about what church teachings you’re violating that you can’t repent of violating because you believe the church teachings are immoral. And say that you don’t believe you’re in a state of mortal sin, so you will go forward for communion, but it’s his choice whether to give it to you.

If they deny communion to all the people they say are unfit to receive communion, instead of just easy targets like gay people or remarried people or certain politicians–90% of American & European Catholics will not be eligible for communion. They are going to have an open revolt on their hands.

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Katherine 04.20.05 at 12:43 pm

“You go to mass one last time and when the man with the funny robe says, “Let’s pray for Pope Ratz” you stand up and shout, “Fuck this! I’d rather be Jewish!” and storm down the isle and out the front door.”

Um. No. I don;t think this is my style.

Anyway, they wouldn’t actually stop counting me.

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Rachel B. 04.20.05 at 12:50 pm

How did the church get to a position where the major issues facing it are abortion, contraception, homosexuality, women priests, and married priests?
Jesus has nothing to say about any of these subjects.

Great question, but I don’t think the answer rests entirely with the Church itself. JP II gave due prominence to social and economic questions and had all sorts of interesting, not at all stereotypically conservative things to say about them, but that fact was basically suppressed in North America — George Bush certainly wouldn’t have been all over him if he actually knew or cared what the man had said. I’m an atheist and no doubt could be better informed here, but my impression is that it’s the American (perhaps more generally Western) media (and public, I suppose) who are obsessed with issues of sex and gender, rather than the RCC itself. It’s as if the line is: Dear Pope, we will continue to pretend to treat you respectfully, but we are not in fact going to listen to *anything* you have to say about *anything* until you fall into line on abortion, homosexuality and the other sex-and-gender stuff we personally care most about. As someone who tends to see stubbornness as a virtue, I kind of admire the Church’s refusal to fall into line, but then since I’m a non-Catholic the fact that they’re substantively wrong is no skin off my nose. My sympathies go out to those in Maria’s position — I don’t really see any good options there.

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Paddy Matthews 04.20.05 at 1:12 pm

In the late 1990s, it was fashionable to leave your Protestant church and join the Roman church in the name of tradition and theology. Now the Eastern church is in vogue, for the same reasons, minus the scourge of sex scandals and the office of the Pope.

They’re not looking very closely then…

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Uncle Kvetch 04.20.05 at 2:18 pm

I’m still officially on the roles in my adopted home parish, and I’ll tell you why the church is so hard to leave—because it’s not just a matter of assent to a list of doctrines. It’s about your actual body

A very perceptive comment, Adam. I’ve had to struggle for years with the fact that my family members–who most emphatically do not agree with the Vatican that their gay son/brother is afflicted with an “intrinsic moral evil”–have remained in the Church that I quite happily left some 20 years ago. And I think you’re hitting on something very important–the regular practice of these highly aestheticized rituals really does “get under your skin.” My 70-year-old parents are basically completely fed up with the Church; my mother was crushed by the sex abuse scandals and is probably appalled by the selection of Ratzinger. But she ain’t goin’ nowhere. “It’s not their Church,” she’s taken to saying, “it’s mine.”

And even as I ponder the discussion upthread about really “leaving” the Church–i.e., I’m considering contacting the church in which I was baptized to be removed from the rolls–I’m fully aware that on some ineffable, almost cellular level, some part of me will always remain “Catholic.”

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maurinsky 04.20.05 at 3:34 pm

I was raised Catholic by Irish-Catholic parents who were not happy about Vatican II, so we always ate fish on Friday, and we had to go to confession before receiving the eucharist, and we didn’t eat until after Mass on Sunday morning. My father was an abusive drunk who confessed his sins without fail on Saturday, but never changed his behavior. I failed to see how confession was doing anything but making him feel slightly less guilty, and no priest ever gave me the idea that they knew I existed, let alone cared about my plight as an abused child.

I went to catechism (later called CCD), but the only two things I remember is 1. I built a kick-ass Temple out of Legos for a project one year, and 2. my confirmation teacher said that all pre-marital sexual activity, aside from being a sin in its own right, was simply a boy using a girl’s body to masturbate into.

(Apparently, something magical happens when you take the vows of marriage, and suddenly you are fully endowed with the ability to enjoy sexual activity not as a sin, but as a wonderful procreational activity).

I lost my faith early in my teens, and I haven’t found it again. I go to church every Sunday (Congregational) because I’m paid to sing, and I do find spiritual value in the music, and sometimes in the words we sing. But I don’t believe in Heaven or Hell, and I no longer worry that I’m headed to the latter. (I spent many hours of my childhood tormented by the thought of Hell, because I was sure that I was headed there). And if there is a God, He sure has been an absentee father in my life.

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PQuincy 04.20.05 at 5:25 pm

Unbaptized, here, myself…but one post got me thinking:

“…in 1935 Pius XI issued a statement entitled “On Better Care for Catechetical Teaching” that says… that “Pastors shall not admit to reception of the sacraments of Penance and Confirmation, as prescribed in Canon 1330, children who have not acquired sufficient knowledge of the catechism according to directives of the Decree of the Sacred Congregation of the Sacraments on August 8, 1910”.”

Ummmmm…..why didn’t he mention subparagraph 254(c) of Section 119, I wonder?

In short: unbaptized as I am, I find that kind of language quite absurd when applied to the problems of transcendence, evil, human goodness and charity, and love.

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Walt Pohl 04.20.05 at 9:07 pm

When did so many people become lackeys in the service of power? Did I take a long nap one day, and functioning human beings were surreptitiously replaced with entities whose only heartfelt impulse is to obey?

This is the Catholic Church we’re taking about here., with a history as long and as varied as any human institution. If Ratzinger is as bad as some people fear, then he’ll only be maybe the one hundredth worse pope ever. Given the Church’s history, the only way a person of conscience can ever be a Catholic is if they distinguish the Church from its current hierarchy.

I don’t know if Maria or any other Catholics on whether they should quit the church because of Ratzinger or for any other reason. Any human institution is perforce imperfect, even human institutions claiming to speak for God. When its imperfections overwhelm its contributions is a matter for the individual conscience.

But the stance that the Catholic Church is its hierarchy or is its doctrine is absurd. It may dovetail exactly with the agenda of people in power, which may be why people in power are so assiduous in spreading it, but a church that has been headed by both John XII and John XXIII can contain multitudes.

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LogicGuru 04.20.05 at 11:33 pm

Apropos of earlier comments, is it really so odd to affiliate with a religious institution even if you don’t believe much of the doctrine–the moral claims in particular? Short of being a merely “ethnic,” Catholic you can be a theist or beyond that a generic Christian (add Trinity, Incarnation and Resurrection) and buy into whatever church provides the handiest or most attractive packaging–or ties into ethnicity or family tradition.

This is the way most Protestants in the US have always operated–switching seamlessly between churches of different “mainline Protestant” denominations depending on location, parking, kids’ programs, etc. Sounds good to me.

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Lisa Williams 04.21.05 at 12:07 am

Thomas: the position you are advocating is a recognized heresy called Donatism — that is, picking and choosing who is “good enough” to be Catholic.

Please stop it or you’ll just have to leave the Church.

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Mrs Tilton 04.21.05 at 6:55 am

How does one get oneself ‘struck from the rolls’ of the Roman Catholic church? I don’t think one can, actually — they would regard anybody baptised in their church as catholic come what may. One might become excommunicated, or even apostasise (which itself would surely incur automatic excommunication?), but one would still be a catholic, albeit a ‘bad’ one cut off from communion with the group; the offical line is that excommunication is a desperate slap upside the head intended to recall you to your senses. So, a catholic who leaves the RC church will have to live with the fact that (to the RC church) she will be a catholic to her dying day. Perhaps she can take comfort in the thought that the RC church’s offical dogmata are a load of old bollocks anyway, a thought for which anybody leaving the RC church might be expected to have some sympathy.

You can offically deromanise yourself in other contexts, though. Here in Germany, denominational affiliation is recognised and recorded by the state. (Baptism is sufficient to get you pegged as RC.) If you wish to leave the church officially, you must go down to the town hall and deregister yourself. Now, the large majority of German RCs are purely nominal catholics. At most, they have a sentimental desire to use church facilities for baptisms, marriages and funerals. So they stay in, as the church will (understandably, I must say) generally refuse these services to non-members. The downside is that every registered member of the RC church (as well as of the mainstream Lutheran church and the Jewish community) is assessed a church tax, collected by the state and handed over to the relevant religious body. Only by deregistering can one escape this tax.

So in Germany at least, as well as in other countries that collect and transfer a tax to the RC church, that church has a strong financial incentive to take a soft line on dissenters and the lukewarm. It will be interesting to see (i) whether Ratzinger will take a harder line and seek to purge his church of its Laodiceans, leaving a much smaller but much purer ‘remnant’, and, if so (ii), how his brother bishops in Germany will react.

Deregistrations from both main denominations have been increasing apace, BTW, but the large majority of Germans remain notional but registered members. Personally, I wish more Germans would have the courage of their lack of convictions and deregister, thereby reducing the RC church’s tax revenue. (That’s not a bit of pope-bashing either; though I’m a prod, I wish more people on my side of the line would do the same. A bright line between God and Caesar is a good thing for both, in my book.)

An aside to Ophelia Benson: though I imagine a pigskin football would indeed be not quite the thing, halakhically speaking, I don’t think we’ll see ha-Poel Tel Aviv hanging up their boots any time soon. (Well, admittedly ha-Poel might not be the most observant of Israeli footballers. Who would the frum support – Betar?) Footballs these days are usually synthetic. Indeed, most are made in Pakistan, where one imagines many workers would be reluctant to make pigskin balls.

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